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@Vermillion-Rx same reply as before, minus the question about why you were posting it to weapons appreciation. I made a similar mistake yesterday, lol.
#ANYWAY...
You can drive yourself crazy with this sort of shit. Trust from a man to a woman has to be earned over time. Not days or weeks, but months and years.
I signed to my wife virtually every power of attorney imaginable so she could manage our affairs while I was in Iraq. I signed them all again 2 more times.
My only complaint was that she spent too much money, and to be fair, she has the same complaint about me.
How did I get to the point that I trusted her that much?
A) when we started getting serious, and I wanted to know more about her divorce, she was able to show me that everything she had said was true.
B) she had never once flaked on me, even when we weren't serious.
C) I kind of just got lucky. I was steeped in feminist brainwashing at the time (FFS, I asked her if she wanted to hyphenate her last name with mine, and to her credit she said no), and blundered my way through several things for years based on false premises. There will come a point where it's a leap of faith, so you have to be mentally prepared for the possibility of being betrayed (and even I knew that despite being steeped in feminist brainwashing back then).
But yeah, from what I recall seeing from you recently, and correct me if I'm wrong, but:
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you've only been with club/bar girls these past several months
- you expect too much, too fast, such as monogamy from them even when you tell them you aren't looking for anything serious
I mean, you're going to a slutty party venue, so you're almost certainly going to find nothing but slutty party girls. Yeah, most women are sluts anywhere you go, but a) there are degrees of severity of sluthood (serial monogamy vs. throwing her legs apart for a new dude several times a week), and b) outside of clubs/bars, your odds of finding a decent woman go from abysmal to just really low.
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