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@AFTSOV Man, this is an age-old debate that I don't really go near anymore.
From my own experience, I can't recall a single person in recovery saying they were suddenly ok with using casually.
99.9% of stories I've heard have been people saying they had long-term recovery, thought they were cool and used, only to be in full blown addiction again not long later.
I'm not quite sure on those who were in addiction, then later became casual users. That's not the sort of people I work with.
I've learnt to just go by my own experiences, and nothing has shown me that a true addict can ever use again without destroying everything.