3y ago TheRedPill
@DarkHuman22 This was too long, so I didn't read it all. Reads like you're not looking for a quick lay, which is admirable these days, especially on this site. This girl you met at the party, did you ask the girl for her phone number before you two parted ways?
3y ago TheRedPill
@Elvis I would much rather meet somebody who I enjoy spending time than wasting a whole night trying pull a random ass person that I don't connect with just for the sake of sex.
3y ago TheRedPill
Parties. I see a girl show interest in me we have a few fun laughters in a group settings and I smile a couple of times at her as I am a very smiley person but then people leave and I an sitting there alone with a girl.
She or I starts talking to 'kill' silence we start talking for half a minute and she starts telling me about a topic. I nod, chuck a bit and smile while asking one or two follow up questions after that silence or I tell one or two superficial things to kill silence.
Dead set each time I talk to a girl when its not a clear friendship setting ( either girlfriend of a friend or known for longer)
The thing is, this does not happen because I am massively feeling insecure in a sense of being 'creepy' and nervous etc. Being in a romantic situation feels to me like stress, as if I am in a business meeting with my boss or back in school when you were talking alone to your teacher. I hate it. I don't enjoy it and I couldn't give less of a shit whatever that girl is superficially talking about.
What is wrong with me?
It's not even that girls are not interested in me and showing that they dislike me, infact in general girls think that I am quite handsome but that sense of social retardation comes from my side rather than them not wanting to talk to me....
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