I'm 22 right now and I’m slowly trying to kill the beta inside of me. Discovered TRP after talking to a girl for three months and became an orbiter. I was the laughing stock in her group chat. My biggest issue is deciding to continue to talk to more women or focus on my other goals. I haven’t spoken to many women in four months. All I feel now is anger about the past and how I acted before. I guess this is just part of the process of changing. Need all the advice I can get.
@SwallowMyPill I would say either Jiu Jitsu or Muay Thai. They both have their benefits and offer great experience especially if you want to fight MMA.
Hey guys,
Pretty new to Trp. Midway through TRM. I just have a question on what i should do right now.
22 year old virgin. Can’t remember the last time i felt a women. Ive had low self esteem pretty much my entire life and it has slightly improved over the past couple years. Currently working on myself: Working out, eating clean, nofap, reading, and meditation. My biggest issue is that i have no social circle. I need to get over my fear of rejection and just get out there. Im just struggling to figure out the best course of action with everything. Im a senior in college and I feel like i have no time to work on my dating life with everything else going on. Should i just not bother with women right now? I don’t want to waste my twenties anymore and to be honest i just want to get laid.
Reads like the problem is that your schooling has consumed so much of your time that you're only now realizing that you failed to apply any of your energy to developing a social life for yourself. The thing is, you freely chose to spend several years of your young adult life in college pursuing more schooling over the alternatives. It's a little late to be having regrets about that decision now that you're in your senior year. Stop comparing yourself to others. Accept the choice you made, complete your studies, use this experience to inspire you to be more resolute on making informed decisions for yourself in the future, and plan accordingly.
In regards to women, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
Beyond that, use your spare time to check out the campus fraternities, if any, that seek to recruit those in your field of study. Try and see if they have alumni chapters close to your hometown/city. Make time to attend any events that will help you socialize with their members or secure employment after graduation. Basically, accept the situation as it currently stands, start planning ahead, and use the finite time you have on Earth as best you can going forward.
Read MoreHey guys,
Pretty new to Trp. Midway through TRM. I just have a question on what i should do right now.
22 year old virgin. Can’t remember the last time i felt a women. Ive had low self esteem pretty much my entire life and it has slightly improved over the past couple years. Currently working on myself: Working out, eating clean, nofap, reading, and meditation. My biggest issue is that i have no social circle. I need to get over my fear of rejection and just get out there. Im just struggling to figure out the best course of action with everything. Im a senior in college and I feel like i have no time to work on my dating life with everything else going on. Should i just not bother with women right now? I don’t want to waste my twenties anymore and to be honest i just want to get laid.
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