This is why I'm not really a fan of things like 'london day game'. It advertises the (false) idea that you can approach random chicks with no context
she has not expressed some sort of IOI
In this context, you want to get her attention first, and in a calibrated manner (not just staring intently like a sperg/genuine creeper), try to induce an IOI or IODI. Smile/wink/blow a kiss/whatever seems to fit the context and is only mildly provocative for it. At a distance, it's not socially awkward or intimidating; her flash reaction will tell you whether it's worth approaching or not. If she returns it, smiles, blushes etc, that's positive. If she looks surprised and looks away quickly, it's neutral- may be shy, may be taken or otherwise unavailable. If she looks angry or disgusted, that's a clear indicator if DISinterest and you have your answer without speaking a word.
Filter prospects in public like this, and your approach success percentage will go WAY the hell up. Perhaps this is something dating coaches are missing or leaving out when pushing the "ease" of day gaming.
Letting the girl pass and coming back to approach "from the side" might come off as too aggressive or stalk-y. If you're walking toward each other, try to catch her eye and throw off some IOI of your own to gauge her reaction from beyond a social distance. If she throws one back, stop and engage. If neutral, look back after she passes, and if she also looks back at you, make your move then while she's looking. If she passes you with a stones-going-meh unreactive face, there's your indication of disinterest.
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And why do they “feel” there has to be a reason?
If you are direct, it comes across aggressive to some girls. If you’re indirect you come across as weak, cowardly and beta to other girls.
Do all girls need a reason (plausible deniability) to chat them up during the day(whether there was IOIs from them or not)?
@TryingToReform 1-don’t have the money 2-I’m still in the process of thinning and balding.
@Lone_Ranger I create context. Open them teasing why they’re wearing all black with black sunglasses for example. Girls generally react bad to personal questions very early on. If you just open teasing them or making a comment about something there you have it. context. Don’t y’all keep saying on here that it’s not about what you say, it’s about how you say it?
@Lone_Ranger My day game success is low. I have to say I do well when I have a better opener than today(I had thought before today that if I see her, I will tease her about following me, since I saw her a few times before. Forgot) AND the girl is open to have a chat with good banter and teasing.
When interactions go well, day game is a lot of fun. I thrive in this. I RARELY get IOIs during the day because of being skinny(lean face and core though) and I’m balding(using a hat or hood of hoodies)
Like you guys are saying about IOIs. I’d have to be on the lookout and maybe get a couple IOI a week from below average girls.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Honestly, I’d rather get a hard rejection like that one upfront every once in a while, than get a girl like her play games with me /use me for attention whilst I’m thinking I could potentially fuck her
