how do you know if a girl is playing hard to get and how to deal with it if so?
2w ago The Dark Winter
@Vermillion-Rx democrat this republican that. two wings of the same bird, nothing ever happens and all roads lead to rome
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov What leads to romantic attraction: similarity, reciprocity, security, or beauty? Evidence from a speed-dating study - PubMed Years of attraction research have established several "principles" of attraction with robust evidence. However, a major limitation of previous attraction studies is that they have almost exclusively relied on well-controlled experiments, which are often criticized for lacking ecological... www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
Predicting Romantic Interest at Zero Acquaintance: Evidence of Sex Differences in Trait Perception but Not in Predictors of Interest
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www.newsweek.com Study Finds That Men Like Nice Women, But Not the Other Way Around Research suggests that if you want to charm a woman at the bar, you may want to turn down the niceness. www.newsweek.com www.newsweek.com
link.springer.com Do Bullies Have More Sex? The Role of Personality - Evolutionary Psychological Science Previous research has shown that adolescent bullying is associated with having a higher number of sexual partners. Bullying may thus represent an effective behavior for increasing the number of sexual partners. However, bullying may be an effective behavior primarily for adolescents who possess... link.springer.com link.springer.com
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link.springer.com You’re OK Until You Misbehave: How Norm Violations Magnify the Attractiveness Devil Effect - Gender Issues Physical attractiveness has been known to act as a cue in determining perceptions of other individuals. Possession of a positive characteristic, such as attractiveness, results in a positive cognitive bias towards the individual. Similarly, possession of a negative characteristic, such as... link.springer.com link.springer.com
www.sciencedirect.com The effects of relationship context and modality on ratings of funniness There is evidence to suggest that humour is an important part of mate choice and that humour may serve as an indicator of genetic quality. The current… www.sciencedirect.com www.sciencedirect.com
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www.deccanchronicle.com Dominance may make bullies more attractive leading to more sex: study www.deccanchronicle.com
archive.is Arrogant and manipulative bullies have more sex, Brock U. study says … archived 17 Jan 2018 21:26:53 UTC archive.is archive.is
nationalpost.com Provocative new study finds bullies have highest self esteem, social status, lowest rates of depression A just-published Canadian study has added heft to a new theory about bullying — that the behaviour actually helps build social rank and sex appeal nationalpost.com nationalpost.com
www.academia.edu ADHD, Autism, and Psychopathy as Life Strategies: The Role of Risk Tolerance on Evolutionary Fitness This literature review suggests that autism spectrum disorders (ASD), attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and antisocial personality disorder/psychopathy (ASPD) represent masculine life strategies. The diagnostic criteria of ADHD www.academia.edu www.academia.edu
www.sciencedirect.com Facial attractiveness as a moderator of the association between social and physical aggression and popularity in adolescents This study examined the relations between facial attractiveness, aggression, and popularity in adolescence to determine whether facial attractiveness … www.sciencedirect.com www.sciencedirect.com
The conclusions of studies above is
No evidence that personality plays any role In sexual attraction
Sexy people are more funnier than unattractive ones/Famales make attractive males think that they are funny (or good personality)
Being unattractive is death sentence/non perceived as a partner no matter how great your personality is
Bullies and Dark Triad guys have more sex, but is just because of Physical Dominance and attractive faces /=Basically Genetic Elite (Chads) making genetic trash down (Incels)
Attractive people with dark triad personality have more popularity, the same not occur with unattractive ones and their popularity will still be the same or lowered
Being attractive will make you get safer even behaving bad
Sexual attraction=Personality perceived
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How and why Dark Triad/Good personality exist is pure genes and enviroment combined
The play of genes in this is by looks and physique (Height and body proportions) what means strong or weak genes
The looks of the person will create a feedback by himself and other people, because/and attract a type of enviroment and behavior/treatment of people ALSO depending in how bad or good your looks creating a good or bad personality what also means
Attractive/Good looking and strong = Good personality or Dark Triad (but perceived as good by woman even being a Serial Killer)
Ugly and weak = Creepy loser disgusting serial killer, but is in fact a loser bullied, but because of his looks the dark triad don't work, because he IS UGLY and will be seeing as a try harder and a joke
The entire concept of Personality is flawed because the world is entire primal, so there's no why or reason to personality works or be somewhat important even in small percentage (imagine thinking that woman will want a children with someone because of his personality, when personality makes nothing to chances of survival and evolution) also, personality is by genes too as you can see by everything here.
Read Moresaar I relapsed on the blackpill again :(
sorry I wrote this on the books tribe this forum design is kinda dogshit with all due respect.
back to reading the sidebar.
@OpenLegsPolicy just get rejected 100 times to get practice theory
Many men are miserable with their lack of romantic success and consequently start searching "how to get a girlfriend" on Youtube. Through these searches, they will come across PUA, specifically "cold approaching" on the street or anywhere in the general public.
The Irony: The most romantically challenged men are immersing themselves in the most difficult practice of getting women.
A naive pua student thinking that even though girls he interacts with regularly can't become sexually attracted to him, a stranger can in an instant.
Fundamental Flaw of Cold Approaching:
"When approaching a girl randomly for a brief interaction, the only thing she can go by is your looks. She doesn't know you, she hasn't spent enough time with you to trust you, she's startled since you caught her off guard, she doesn't have any friends vouching for you, etc. You're a complete stranger, so unless you're hot, she's not taking the risk of going out with you."
Good News
Many girls, and I'm sure some of you, have found themselves becoming attracted to someone they initially didn't think was that attractive. You can see this yourself by going outside and seeing sub8's with girlfriends. So it's not completely over for you if you're sub8. But this took time, it took long conversation, it took a long time of interaction.
"But if I don't make my intentions clear from the start, I'll get friend zoned! That's what RSD Douchebag taught me!"
Wrong. If you make your intentions clear from the start and you're ugly...
You're literally creating a real life version of Tinder: "Am I hot enough or not?" - girl has to answer on the spot. And we know what the answer usually is based on Tinder statistics.
That's a recipe for failure if you're ugly. You actually WANT to spend a long time with a girl so she can build a personal and emotional connection to you, which then can make your ugly face more attractive to her at some point. This is the Mere Exposure Effect.
Notes:
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You still need to "approach" (initiate conversation is a better way of putting it), but just do it in more natural situations. Not this random street spam shit. Cold approaching is like spam email.
- "You're just a defeatist! You don't want to face rejection! You don't want to put in the effort!" Wrong. This post is actually helping ugly guys by telling them the RIGHT way of getting girls that has a much higher success rate.