9mo ago Ask TRP

Do you guys eat pussy? I’m personally indifferent about it, but it seems like anytime I do I get weird side effects like loss of sex drive and erectile dysfunction. Wondering if it’s a personal thing or if something happens chemically or hormonally when you go down town.

While I don't fault those who orally pleasure their partners, I don't do it myself. However, something does indeed happen both mentally and physically to a person who regularly engages in oral fornication, particularly if your lovers are the sort who expect you to go downtown even when the streets aren't clean.

9mo ago Ask TRP

Do you guys eat pussy? I’m personally indifferent about it, but it seems like anytime I do I get weird side effects like loss of sex drive and erectile dysfunction. Wondering if it’s a personal thing or if something happens chemically or hormonally when you go down town.

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10mo ago Ask TRP

I’m in an LTR, started it off on kind of bad circumstances. I knew this girl while I was with my ex, we flirted pretty heavy while I was still with my ex. I didn’t fuck her or anything while I was with my ex, but I broke up with my ex from unrelated problems and about a month later started this LTR. Occasionally (especially if we’ve been drinking) she brings up my ex, mostly it’s been saying she feels bad for her for trying to get with me while I was with her, but lately it’s been more like “if you were dating her and still flirted with me then you’ll do the same thing with another girl while you’re dating me” i said “we flirted but I never acted on it” (never tried to fuck her or even kiss her) and left it at that but she was obviously still wanting to talk about it. She was cuddling me and put distance between us seeming to be in a deep thought about it. I didn’t say anything else and went to bed and a couple hours later I woke up to her cuddling me again and this morning kissing on me grabbing my dick pretending nothing happened. Any tips? Especially if this happens again?

She's a rebound chick who knows a little of your past. As such, she knows that you had her attention while you were already involved with someone else. Sure, she may believe that you're capable of loyalty and as far a she knows you were loyal. The thing is, she also knows that if you're banging her now, there are likely other females who have shown an interest in you. That's the situation as best I can figure from what you've shared.

As for tips, I don't see any problems of concern. If she brings this up a three months after you two have started seeing each other, then I'd keep dating her, but not let the relationship advance any further. Some gals aren't ready to deal with the prospects of potential competition and you may find that she's one of them.

10mo ago Ask TRP

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@DanielLarson It's passive dread. Can't get better than that.

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10mo ago Ask TRP

@adam-l honestly what I was thinking, some part of me thinks me having a Gf is what made me more attractive to her in the first place

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10mo ago Ask TRP

Moderator

@DanielLarson It's better that way. Use the tension for exciting fucks. No problem.

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10mo ago Ask TRP

I’m in an LTR, started it off on kind of bad circumstances. I knew this girl while I was with my ex, we flirted pretty heavy while I was still with my ex. I didn’t fuck her or anything while I was with my ex, but I broke up with my ex from unrelated problems and about a month later started this LTR. Occasionally (especially if we’ve been drinking) she brings up my ex, mostly it’s been saying she feels bad for her for trying to get with me while I was with her, but lately it’s been more like “if you were dating her and still flirted with me then you’ll do the same thing with another girl while you’re dating me” i said “we flirted but I never acted on it” (never tried to fuck her or even kiss her) and left it at that but she was obviously still wanting to talk about it. She was cuddling me and put distance between us seeming to be in a deep thought about it. I didn’t say anything else and went to bed and a couple hours later I woke up to her cuddling me again and this morning kissing on me grabbing my dick pretending nothing happened. Any tips? Especially if this happens again?

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11mo ago Ask TRP

Need a risk assessment: HB6 I knew online who lives 6 hours away I got annoyed with so I ghosted 4 months ago and yesterday she showed up at my house unannounced (got my address on Google), wanted to hangout and honestly didn’t feel like it but did it anyway. She gave me a BJ and swallowed then a while later I banged her (with a condom) and then sent her on her way back to wherever she lives.

I realize this is crazy bitch behavior so I took the precautions of secretely audio recording her saying she liked banging and wanted to do it again and asked if she could blow me again rn before she left and I said I didn’t feel like it. Ended the audio recording with me leaving her presence and immediately went to a food place and used my debit card. Also saved texts of her afterwards being flirty and wanting to do it again.

Any other precautions I should take? Also what’s the worst STD I could get from this? Honestly wish I shut the door in her face now that I’m so paranoid trying to cover my tracks of a rape allegation or chance of getting an STD

What's done is done, you let her in, but I'd have done the deed through the door and prepared for what would follow. She could've texted you or sent a postcard or something with her contact info to break the ice first. Instead the psychotic little nymph shows up on your doorstep clear out of the blue courtesy of a search. In your situation, invest in some personal surveillance tech while this chick is around and use condoms from here onward.

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11mo ago Ask TRP

@MentORPHEUS Will do, but yeah that’s exactly what she said. She missed me, I wasn’t talking to her, so she drove out here and hoped I’d talk to her again. Definitely don’t want anything long term with her but the power dynamic you described should keep that at bay and still get my dick wet. She begged me to stay at the hotel with her but I said I had things to do and I’d see her when I could so that should keep the hamster going like you said.

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11mo ago Ask TRP

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@DanielLarson Did she come out and say she got that room specifically to be near you and nothing else? That is kinda uncalibrated and unexpected behavior for a woman, though not entirely out-there.

Make her QUALIFY for further attention from you. Maybe busy yourself with other things tomorrow, but tell her if she's a good girl you MIGHT be available one or both of the next days. Then let that hamster run! This means you go quiet and let HER come up with ways and reasons for you to spend time with her, and YOU pick from desirable ones she comes up with, and if there aren't any, don't make yourself available. Don't allow yourself to feel shamed, pressured, whatever from applying this power dynamic. You're in the driver's seat for this one, now don't fuck that up!

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