EDIT: plate girl always asks "tell me what you want" and gets mad when I tell her I already have what I want. What I want is our situation: don't ask, don't tell. We are friends with benefits.
EDIT: plate girl always asks "tell me what you want" and gets mad when I tell her I already have what I want. What I want is our situation: don't ask, don't tell. We are friends with benefits.
Gents, a female friend (girl A, classmate) who has feelings for me told my main plate (girl B) that she was at my place, I cooked us dinner, we cuddled on my couch, and that I had my hand on her leg (all true except for cuddling, we were merely sitting close). Girl A does not know I'm banging girl B, and Girl B did not tell Girl A that we are banging. We are all friends from a part time job we had in the summer. Now, my main plate calls me and tells me how she had to listen to all this, and that she's not upset because she doesn't have a reason to be, but since she's friends with girl B we can't fuck anymore. I told her I literally don't see girl A as anything but a friend, which is true. I'd like to keep them at their current status.
How do I use this situation to my advantage?
@ausplaya10 look, not everything is black and white. It's not performance vs emotional. Anyone who has had a successful LTR at some point knows that you need to strike a balance of both, somewhere around 80/20. Doing it around a girl's menstrual cycle is like steroids for your relationship and yourself.
Focus on yourself. That attracts the right females. If you decide to LTR, you will need some connection/emotions/romance whatever you call it. But as soon as you pass the sweet spot, she will grow to resent you because you're no longer the "performing" man that she fell in love with.
I don't like the words (romantic idealism vs performance) you chose but I wrote this using them so you can better understand.
@carnold03 great analysis. I was thinking the same - her mental state is poor (she has had to cut out social life to study for a 8 hour exam this last month). Before she started studying she was a lot more carefree and positive. Space is exactly what she'll get - thank you.
How would you reply to "I really don't want to have sex anymore" for religious reasons?
FWB of mine has been struggling with her faith and says she feels guilty after she has sex. Says it doesn't make her feel good consciously. I believe her (crazy, right) because I see how much time she spends reading religious texts and praying.
I was going to ask her out but I'm not going to date someone I'm not fucking. I'd like to stay friends - she is from a good family and her family has connections in my field. My list of potential replies:
- that's cool, sex with you was whack anyways (neg)
- I'm abstinent too we should get married (agree & amplify)
what would you say?
I'd say, "no problem-o", before suggesting that she make time to head to confession, assuming she's some branch of Christian. She's using her faith as a shield behind which she can rationalize and justify her poor decisions and declining interest in you. That's not a good sign of her mental state. Find someone else to drain your balls into and give this chick the space she needs to sort herself out.
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Long story short I got a sports hernia playing hockey and doc said 4-6 weeks til I can resume sports. Means I won’t be able to lift any plates, both iron and women, for at least 2-4 weeks.
What suggestions do y’all have? Picking up girls and pinning them against the wall, throwing girls around in the bedroom, and mattress wrestling were my forte. What do I do now?
I’m thinking be straight up with them as to what happened without much detail other than I can’t move much. Seeing a plate tomorrow, lmk your suggestions.
While you're regaining your mobility following your hernia surgery, so that all the hoes know, might I suggest a beautiful stylish cane dressing, sir?
