2y ago  The Hub

@Zavss can't put definitive answer due to being born with it and not knowing otherwise. But I'll give as best explanation as possible.

Hypersensitivity : Imagine inability to tolerant certain stimulants (light, touch, sound, smell... etc') So you either need to be in very bright or very dark places when hitting on a chick. Or not being able to tolerant being in large groups because you can't handle the sound due to it's loudness. So when trying to meet people you can't go to crowded bars or hit on girls during full daylight. You can imagine the limits of where I can hit on girls. So finding hub spots (bars that work on regulars, a nice park, coffee shops...) that don't bother as much is detrimental.

Interests / hyperfocus: This is a more of a blessing than a curse, it comes as far as I heard that there's hobbies, specifically in my case it's everything that is mechanical, whether the body structure (fitness comes to play) or the ability to focus and stimulants (stimulants and meditation) or obviously programming. Up until recently I thought that showing my date the latest cool thing I found would make impression. It doesn't just escalate as much as possible and talk only to settle her ASD is the best approach.

There's also the part of lack of social skills, but as a guy, if you have a useful function nobody gives a shit about social awkwardness and just let's you be.

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2y ago  The Hub

@kevin32 the last 4 words said to a stranger may be a factor to why the guy just vanished.

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2y ago  The Hub

I know that it's recommended to learn Martial arts. I used to do 7-8 years Ninjitsu. Due to my autism which hinder my ability in working in a group. (also covid) I'm more interested in the concepts, technicality of combat than it's benefits in most cases so I'm geared towards very nerdy sports. Not to dismiss the benefits of martial arts.

Is HEMA, or if anyone knows pankration. Knows how can I start training in them?

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2y ago  The Hub

@Godblessusall emotional tampon, leave. Let her spill her problem to her gal friends.

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2y ago  The Hub

@AFTSOV I don't recognize those acronyms.

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2y ago  The Hub

@AFTSOV Good we understood. Pretty much, after fucking her, I want to relax and I take her along.

And I don't expect her to be the main girl. I said it's possible if she agrees to the terms and it goes well. So far she overtly accept I'm dating other girls. But hasn't applied the rest. That's why she isn't.

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2y ago  The Hub

@Zavss agreed, that's why I doubt I'll promote her more than she is to be my main. It's possible, but she'll have to work very hard for it.

I hit on other girls on the regular. I get dates sometimes. But so far no extra lays.

2y ago  The Hub

@AFTSOV and when we meet up. once every 2-3 weeks.

2y ago  The Hub

@AFTSOV The terms are for her to be the main girl. She's a FWB. I thought plate meant a girl you're dating non exclusively as part of the plate theory.

I treat her like a girlfriend (taking her out) in order to hamster her. The only condition is that I choose where we go, what we get, and how much I spend.

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2y ago  The Hub

Should I permanently demote or forgive? Plate uttered a flirty remark yesterday to a friend.

Me and a plate after having immense sex. Plate gave me the talk after too many responses "When I'm with you, I'm with you." so I overtly told her I'm seeing other girls, but I don't want to share any info about them (in reality she's the only one, I do get dates outside but none are established). I told her she can be the main girl (making her part of my life by meeting family and friends and taking her to events) if she's not having any other guys and closes her social medias and I see everything goes well. While she's in shock I pack my things preparing to leave the whole relationship if she doesn't agree. She insists walking me out and tells she agrees and we go to our regular bar.

2 old friends were there and we sat together with them. He got up and said "You get what you see!" While gesturing his clothes. My plate replied "I'd love to see what you got!" implying to look underneath. I gave her the death stare immediately and she started pronoun sly asking for forgiveness. I let her slide while in the company of friends and she was silent for the rest of the night. Until we arrived at my bus stop to make out and dirty talk to each other.

So far it looks like a shit test, but this is a serious offense for me. And the fact she realized and asked for an apology is the only redeeming thing about the incident. Demoting her is what said to do in www.forums.red/p/theredpill/3524/humansockpuppet_s_guide_to_managing_your_bitches But in this case it means I'm not promoting her anytime soon more than she is.

Due to not having experience what would you say is the best course of action?

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