Is it better to have the woman hold your arm or hold hands when you walk? I always the classy arm hold but my friend told me to cut it out. But it feels middle schoolish to me. Maybe i'm overthinking it.
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Is it better to have the woman hold your arm or hold hands when you walk? I always the classy arm hold but my friend told me to cut it out. But it feels middle schoolish to me. Maybe i'm overthinking it.
she insisted on paying the $40 dinner bill. I’m the kind who usually takes care of the bill, but she beat me to it and was pretty adamant about it.
@coolsocks00 Sounds good. Will do , this was the last date that was severely out of my area so it’s hard to shift venues when I’m across the city. I’ll do drinks near my place in the future
Hey guys, just checking in with a quick report on my 17th date that threw me for a loop. Went out with this 20 year old businesswoman who’s quite the conservative type and has her own pet business , pretty sure she makes 6 figures. Had wings and drinks at a fairly casual place, nothing too fancy. The whole evening was interesting, to say the least. We kicked things off with a hug and surprisingly, that was as physical as it got; ended the night with another hug.
Now, you’d think that limited physical contact would make for a dull evening, but not this time. We dived into some heavy conversation topics—politics, family, career ambitions—she was holding her own in every discussion. I tried some of Roosh's advice I read in his book but this girl is actually very intelligent. This wasn’t just chit-chat; it was interesting. But here’s where it really gets unconventional: she insisted on paying the $40 dinner bill. I’m the kind who usually takes care of the bill, but she beat me to it and was pretty adamant about it.
A conservative businesswoman taking the financial reigns is really interesting. Keen to hear your thoughts on this one. Didn't escalate as she had to go home quickly. But I think next date I'll try and escalate at my place.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv Lol no worries, library genesis is kinda like pirates bay for books. Just an archive of every book for free. Really good site for uni . I'm reading bang by roosh now, it's pretty good.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Thanks. I also found all of roosh's books he pulled on libgen, which funny enough I use to pull textbooks from uni as well. libgen.is/search.php?req=roosh+v&lg_topic=libgen&open=0&view=simple&res=25&phrase=1&column=def Will read all of them right now. I have a date in 3 hours so I'll try and put it to good use.
The question is, how many women are actually willing to sleep on a first date?
Just about all of them, if they're sufficiently attracted to you. Some of them don't even need to be taken out, if you meet them somewhere conducive to an immediate hookup (eg; house party).
I guess if there's enough attraction there's no real minimum amount of dates, which is what I gathered from the sidebar.
Exactly.
With your looks, you should be slaying. Work on confidence, congruence, and other aspects of game.
In the red archive for Heartiste, search for "congruence" and "congruent" and read every result from both of the searches.
I appreciate the advice @Vermillion-Rx and @Typo-MAGAshiv , I've been kind of mindlessly going on dates the past month but if it's okay with you I think I'll start genuinely pushing out field reports. Logistically I think most of the dates don't work out because I either force the kiss when it's not romantic ( they never say no but sometimes it feels like I'm holding them hostage) and because it's in my car, not even in the backseat so the angle is super fucking weird. The kiss never feels romantic. But at least I'm okay at it. Yesterday was really awkward though, she kept telling me what I should do (which I lowkey appreciate)
I think the plan from here on out is to plan drinks near my house ( i always end up driving 20m to a bar near THEIR place), so I might just need to start wittling down the dates with women near my place. Go for drinks , play some pool, go for a walk, then over to my house. The question is, how many women are actually willing to sleep on a first date? I guess if there's enough attraction there's no real minimum amount of dates, which is what I gathered from the sidebar.
That being said my game during the date itself is pretty good now. I hold frame very well but I'm still a little inexperienced in the romance which is why I can't keep the women around. They're unsatisfied. I'd like to read roosh's work like you mentioned @Typo-MAGAshiv so I'll see if I can dig it up.
Still proud of myself because I've been on 16 dates now since July 28th which is 2-3 dates per week. I have a lot of leads but I literally burn up all of them.
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