9mo ago Ask TRP

(Field report) -

Guys I might be retarded, I took a cute girl on a ride (she asked me) and I couldn’t do shit from it. she was hugging into me so tight I feel like my brain started malfunctioning (keep in mind I’m khhv) She asked me a couple questions while I was taking her like how long have you been riding for etc and I could barely answer cause of how fast my heart was racing. I don’t think I’m ever gonna escape my fate

Another pair of hot girls posted up right next to me at the bar. One brushed her hair against me which could’ve been an accident but then I heard them say the word bike (I had my helmet there) so maybe they were trying to get my attention but not too sure.

Overall feel like I had some opportunities and I blew it again. I’m not sure how to progress in these situations. Should I just get hammered drunk or what

11mo ago Ask TRP

@Vermillion-Rx isn’t that exactly what I meant by learning the fine line to not cross lol. Seems like you didn’t understand what I was saying

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joyboy

11mo ago Ask TRP

@Vermillion-Rx from what I could tell you wanted me to go back and try with the girl again

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joyboy

11mo ago Ask TRP

Now that I think about it she didn’t seem uncomfortable or anything like That, her body language was kind of positive if anything cause she was facing me directly and w strong eye contact so it should’ve been worth another try

joyboy

11mo ago Ask TRP

@Vermillion-Rx True but at the same time I don’t want to come off socially uncalibrated and end up getting removed from the bar for harassment or some crazy shit like That so there’s a fine line to walk

You were right about the bike being a boost btw I’ve had so many interactions with girls just cause of it, like girls yelling “I like your bike” while I’m sitting on it or waving at me from there cars or stuff like that. Still trying to figure out how capitalize on those opportunities though

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joyboy

11mo ago Ask TRP

@Vermillion-Rx it’s fine i don’t even thinks it’s worthy of going on there now that I read it back. It’s not really asking anything but just giving an update so it’s fine here

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joyboy

11mo ago Ask TRP

Things I’ll try to improve for next time: stay in the interaction longer instead of letting it fizzle out
approach more girls @vermillion-rx could you move the post to the forum with a field report flair

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joyboy

11mo ago Ask TRP

Got over the hurdle of drinking and just started doing it. I had a beer (tasted like rat piss) but it definitely helped get me out of my head. I befriended a guy ordering next to me and we stayed together the night pretty much.

We had our eyes on a pair of girls so I told him we should approach them somehow since they didn’t really know what they were doing on the dance floor either. This motherfucker had 2 shots and 4 beers but was still it scared to approach them so he said he would follow my lead so I said sure. So we started dancing towards them.

My approach was kinda dumb but I basically told her one of them that her dancing was kinda ass but mines was bad too so it’s ok. Then we just danced apart. I noticed she kept looking over at me after so not sure but I dipped a while after that. I still had a lot of fun though even though I had no idea how to dance and looked like a flailing retard for most of it. I feel like if I do this a couple more times I’ll get more confident.

1y ago Ask TRP

@Kloi No there not even my main complaint. It’s just one part of the things making me insecure but the main thing is my upbringing which made me socially stunted

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joyboy

1y ago Ask TRP

@Vermillion-Rx Not being facially attractive, short, not charismatic/outgoing, etc.

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