2w ago  TheRedPill

@kosredpill Question/observation: What do you mean by chemistry?

I married my wife and we have awful chemistry but for 20 years, knock on wood, she's a good wife and mother. Women are into astrology and "chemistry" and all that nonsense because they live in "feelings" world. As a man, you should easily be able to quantify, like the oil level on your car engine, what's going on. With a woman who was quite nice but not compatible with me, I was able to easily quantify why I had to cut her loose.

It sounds like she was prettier online than in person. A 2/10 difference in scale is significant and I appreciate that may be simply the issue. I met my wife at age 26, married her at 30, 20th anniversary coming up. So think long term. A 6.5 whose still a 6.5 at 20 years is not much different than an 8 whose a 6 20 years later.

Of course, I'm from an earlier generation where I got married and had a daughter. I'm looking after he now while my wife is on a cruise with my sister.

If I were 20 years ago and a guy like you, I'd consider a 6.5/10 whose crazy for me to be an opportunity to perhaps, if she's ok, to set up a legal trust with the funds largely safe from divorce/child-support lawyers crawling over them and have a family. My wife it's not necessary for other reasons (she knows I'm more useful to her alive than dead, so I drink my tea without fear.)

My wife is a pain in the rear, but I do like a lot about her which includes that she has family values which means a lot to me. This is all about what you want out of life. Best wishes.

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2w ago  TheRedPill

@deeplydisturbed @Vermillion-RX what's interesting to me about the trans-gender thing is how it hurts the TERF anti-male feminists. If I was 20, I'd have gotten some earrings, declared myself a trans-gender woman lesbian, and applied for all the female-only scholarships and goodies. Remember Billie Jean King? She bragged that women could beat a man (turns out Bobbie Riggs probably fixed the tennis match to pay gambling debts) and that's why women soccer and golf players should be paid the same as men.

Play chess, men, not checkers.

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3w ago  The Hub

@deeplydisturbed @FrancoAP Back in the 1980's, the major beneficiary of "DEI" were late boomer/early Gen X white, bourgeoisie middle class women whose father cut her checks to go to university, enjoyed preferential treatment, and then married the huge number of aging boomer men whose "privilege" had been grandfathered in. It was The Happy Times of 2nd wave feminism.

Think about if a manager needs to meet their diversity quota in 1985: You can hire a minority man who wants to support his family OR a pretty white girl. Note that back then this sexual harassment nonsense didn't yet take effect so it meant more V available in the workplace as well.

The bean counter executives eventually decided they were interested in ethnic "diversity" after all via the importation of cheap labor to replace "lazy" white guys. It's a two-fer: Bring in subservient indentured servant immigrants and score quota points as well. Being a white male in most corporate environments means that EVERYONE is looking to stick a knife in your back including your own kind while everyone else are members of "protected groups" in wolf packs.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5V6gdu5ih8

Eventually though, first they came for the lower class white males, then they came for the middle class white males, and now they're coming for the Karens.

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4w ago  WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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@Typo-MAGAshiv @moorekom, @woodsmoke, @lurkerhasarisen, @DeeplyDisturbed There's three total. The OP post (which I don't think I've posted yet), and the other 2 which were comments to that. I can post as Single Mother Tears on the weekend content in separate posts as part 1, part 2, and part 3 with comments explaining the context.

Just to be sure which is which in case someone objects to any of the parts: part 1 is: "I'm a single mom who is ready to give up on men because they all want sex" (post on a forum) (single mom tears for flair, yes?) part 2 is: "this literally made me cry" (comment to the post in part 1) (strong successful woman flair vibe) part 3 is: "If it makes you feel any better I am in my 30's with no kids and I also have no shortage of dates" (comment to the post in part 1, likely a leftover woman flair?)

Today is Wednesday so I can post on Friday or Saturday. Please give guidance/advice. I expect these gals are not going anywhere in the meantime... :-)

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4w ago  WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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@moorekom This is in response to this post. I perhaps should post this first and these others can be part 2 and 3 but they are from different responding women. Actually, this one looks pretty good. Is this single mother tears, or even The Big Question? @lurkerhasarisen @Typo-MAGAshiv

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1mo ago  WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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@moorekom @lurkerhasarisen @Typo-MAGAshiv and another prospect... Single Mother Tears?

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1mo ago  WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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@moorekom @lurkerhasarisen @Typo-MAGAshiv Here's another leftover for your consideration for submission or is this epiphany phase? She sounds like she "gets it" that it's tougher for older women, but if she wanted commitment and set her standards better she'd probably have it.

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1mo ago  WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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@woodsmoke Done. BTW, thanks all for the feedback.

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1mo ago  WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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@Typo-MAGAshiv There are two comment threads (in the comments) between the OP and the guy with the 6 year younger wife. I can put 2 black lines to delineate the two thread discussions. A two parter may be confusing unless I put "part 1"/"part 2" if you two desire. No rush. Leftovers ok for the flair?

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1mo ago  WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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@Typo-MAGAshiv @moorekom OK, new edit. Flair with leftovers?

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