a few messages of friendly banter beforehand...

me:

Gotcha same here. We could set up a quick drink of coffee somewhere if you’d like?

her

Yeah for sure!

me:

Cool stuff NAME idk if you have a whatsapp number could help in sorting out the logistics

her

I honestly use messenger more than WhatsApp haha so we can chat here if it’s ok. Let me know!

me:

Gotcha! That works

I'm currently in ROUGHLOCATION...so a place between ROUGHLOCATION and where you're at would work?

her

Yeah I’m near HERLOCATION so I’m assuming around HERLOCATION area works?

me:

Oh HERLOCATION I know it well. Wanna go to RESTAURANT?

Just something light

her

Yeah for sure! That works

me:

Cool - Sunday @ 4pm?

her

That might be too tight for me

Can we do later in case or even Monday ?

me:

The week after @ same time?

No reply in a day....did I f up?

I delayed it for anti-flake defense, but not sure if I killed the momentum?

a few messages of friendly banter beforehand.... Hit me with feedback here.

me:

Gotcha same here. We could set up a quick drink of coffee somewhere if you’d like?

her

Yeah for sure!

me:

Cool stuff NAME idk if you have a whatsapp number could help in sorting out the logistics

her

I honestly use messenger more than WhatsApp haha so we can chat here if it’s ok. Let me know!

me:

Gotcha! That works

I'm currently in ROUGHLOCATION...so a place between ROUGHLOCATION and where you're at would work?

her

Yeah I’m near HERLOCATION so I’m assuming around HERLOCATION area works?

me:

Oh HERLOCATION I know it well. Wanna go to RESTAURANT?

Just something light

her

Yeah for sure! That works

me:

Cool - Sunday @ 4pm?

her

That might be too tight for me

Can we do later in case or even Monday ?

me:

The week after @ same time?

No reply in a day....did I f up?

I delayed it for anti-flake defence, but not sure if I killed the momentum?

Hi folks I’m new here, please go easy on me

I don’t really have time for this online dating stuff so now and again I try it

I’m somewhat into the Red Pill stuff as well but I believe in a healthy way (I don’t take this stuff that seriously, nor do I worship women, or get to drawn in) I’m m27 she f25.

Just looking for feedback to learn, but please don’t shit on me if it looks like I’m horrible at this texting stuff (this convo is not verbatim) I’m assuming I was too aggressive/logical?

She matches on Bumble and asks “Hi how are you”

I say “Busy and great! Good summer?”

She says “Yeah it went by fast. I’m busy too, like a workaholic”

I say “Yup summers go seem to go by faster every year” “So what’s your story (NAME), what makes you tick?”

She replies “yup workaholics unite haha” “What makes me tick? That’s a loaded question”

I reply

“True, my bad.”

“Most workaholics won’t admit that they are though”

Unmatch

Also I took like 12hrs+ to respond she did like 6hrs as yes not to be clingy and I genuinely don’t like checking these apps all the time

Feedback?