@RedPirate751 And a big part of the market place being rigged has to do with blue pilled conditioning also, such as people who think using dread on a girl is wrong, but nowadays it’s the most cliche’ tactic I see woman using on dudes in the dating market, and the only way to counter that would be to increase your options as a man and focus on yourself rather than her, but the problem is so many dudes are simps or AFC’s and they don’t even realize woman manipulate men all the time for resources.

It reminds me of my church days before leaving, I asked the pastor why if God didn’t want us to commit the sexual fall, then why did God make woman beautiful, why didn’t God make woman more ugly so we didn’t want to sexually sin, and he gave the most savage reply I’ve ever heard from a pastor, he said, “woman are much uglier than men, why do you think they need to spend so much on cosmetics and make up for their beauty?” Lmao!

@AFTSOV Most definitely brotha!

Good question, I’m surprised I haven’t heard more people talk about this in the red pill community.

I would say that knowing how to approach and doing approaches is essential for meeting new woman and sourcing new girls, and meeting those girls, and the way I see it is that certain girls become a connect to do other stuff like what I mentioned about creating your own hang out, basically your own private nightclub or music festival with those girls.

The other reason we all know being red pill aware is the idea of dread game, if you can have other woman and can meet even more woman and source new woman, not only will you cure your oneitis, you will also put yourself in a more likely position to create your unicorn through instilling dread in the girl. We need to be careful revealing this one to the blue pilled crowd, even though woman use this tactic all the time on men, be it consciously or subconscious, and I see it so much it’s becoming like a cliche’ with woman in the dating market.

Last but not least, even though the majority of my lays have been girls approaching me and walking up to me, there are lays that do happen when you approach the girl also, but typically those girls were giving strong IOI’s, and the girls who didn’t give strong IOI’s, I would just get phone numbers that wouldn’t answer or her Instagram, and it would be this long dragged out thing where she would take forever to reply, so then I would take forever to reply to her to apply text game, and by then I’m already meeting other woman so fuck it.

But just the fact that you do that shows abundance and will put abundance mindset in your head. I’d be curious to know if there has ever been a guy who had so much game that he fucked a girl who didn’t give any noticeable IOI’s and did the approach. I’m not saying it isn’t possible, but I have yet to see something like that in real life, but I’m sure it’s being done.

I see the point there guys are making about giving up on approaching, it takes time and there is a huge fear of rejection, and the dating market is rigged in favor of woman, but they are doing themselves a disservice I think, how do you know that your girl is even that special if you haven’t even met that many girls? Only one way to find out.

@AFTSOV Thanks brotha!!

For me it’s either straight cold approaching as soon as I feel it, or I meet them in class doing a group project and I get their number and they usually want to party or hang out, and my goal is to get enough girls in rotation that I have a house party and invite a bunch of people if the clubs and concerts are still in lockdown.

That’s why meeting girls with boyfriends isn’t always a bad thing, because that just means a bigger party or bigger hang out, and then eventually from there you get them bringing other girls and then bands to play and entertainment and you have something way more fun then a bar or festival during the pandemic.

Also the same thing at nightclubs, I’ll walk up to a group of girls, and if there is a guy or two guys there I will talk to the man first and talk him to find out what the situation is and find out if it’s alright to hit up one of the other girls in the group, or open a group of girls.

I still haven’t approached at the gym, I’ve seen girls giving me IOI’s but it’s risky, because if it’s an awkward interaction in anyway, such as a girl using dread on her boyfriend, and then he shows up, now I gotta deal with an awkward situation. Just play it cool in those types of environments and be too cool to approach.

@AFTSOV To be honest I’ve been fucking busy as hell these days, on my purpose and mission laser focused, and everything is still locked down around here where I’m at, so I’ve been doing mostly day game at the University and because I’ve been pretty focused, I want to really put up a good fight with one of the coaches who is a pro mma fighter who hangs out and has a connect with Nate Diaz, so I want to be ready for the opportunity when I get booked into something big. So I’m mostly doing day game to keep girls in rotation. I have more fun doing day game and cold approaching than using tinder or bumble, so I don’t use online dating apps at all, I learn more and get more out of it the old school way, and looking at those Robert Greene stories, I think the cold approach and the in person interaction is what’s missing in woman’s lives these days.

The majority of girls I’ve smashed so far are girls who approached me and walked up to me, and that can either be a humble brag, or a testament to my game being absolute shit, depending on if you subscribe to the philosophy that the only close in game is a fuck. My buddies and I used to consider phone numbers and bringing girls back to our place as a close, but I’ve seen on the red pill that numbers and bringing girls back to your place for an afterparty isn’t a close, only a fuck is a close, so with that in mind, majority of the girls I’ve fucked have been girls who walked up to me in school, the club or saw me performing at one of my gigs and approached me.