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[Case Study] How to Get Laid on Tinder (Pics & Proof)
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Today, we’re gonna talk about the topic everyone cares about:
How to Get Laid on Tinder
Why should you listen to me when it comes to this subject? Because my top achievement so far is that I fucked 3 different (completely random) girls from Tinder in 1 day. That day was Thanksgiving and I guess girls just didn’t have anything better to do than come over and fuck me (lol). I remember posting the proof on my Facebook page, and some of it got taken down because of how explicit it was, but that was the legendary day that dubbed me as the Tinder god. Here’s a post where some guys were discussing my Tinder skills and were shocked at how crazy my results are.
Here are some excerpts from the post and my comments on what it all means:
Alright, let’s focus on the actual methods that work for how to get laid on Tinder…
It seems simple enough…
it’s a super simple, easy to use app.
All you have to do is get up off your couch, take a couple great pics, and write a YOLO bio, and then… profit!! You’re swimming in women.
Haha… well that’s not exactly how it goes down, young buck.
In this post, I am going to show you the exact process by which you actually start seeing results on Tinder. And the difficulty of the process will depend on how well you currently take care of yourself, your grooming/fashion sense, and, most importantly, your inner confidence/self esteem.
The same guys who have success in real life with women are the guys who have success on Tinder.
So, the same rules of success matter. You won’t see a nerd who plays World of Warcraft 16 hours a day (and never sees daylight except when he takes out the trash as per mommy’s instructions) getting any action from Tinder (or any other mobile dating apps / online dating).
If you’re nervous just being near a cute girl in your daily routine, how do you expect to be any different when you actually meet up with a girl from Tinder?
Becoming good with women is a holistic process.
But, you know what? Let’s say that you wanna just jump right in, and start testing Tinder and you wanna get it to work for you (while you work on all the other areas of your sexual market value).
At the most base level, let’s assume that you’ve created a 3 month plan to lift weights, eat right, and build enough muscle to look good enough to get results on Tinder.
I’ve tested my own skinny pics vs muscular pics and I saw a boost in matches of 300+. In the beginning, I weighed 120 lb and looked anorexic, and in 3 months time, I looked good enough that I felt that I would attract girls on Tinder from my physique.
I used stereo-typically attractive traits to craft my image for Tinder. I groomed hair to have a super short trim on the sides and long on the top. And then I gelled it up like I was going to a club. And then I took pics in front of a mirror in my bathroom.
Yes, I felt silly as fuck doing this. It feels so weird getting dressed and ready just for taking pics, because in your head you’re like “wtf am I doing?,” “Will this really work?,” “I look how I look, and there’s nothing that’s gonna change that.” “There’s no way that gelling my hair up is going to boost my matches and get me DTF girls on Tinder.”
That is the voice of doubt. Ignore it. I’m serious. Ignore that shit.
The smallest change in your appearance and images can have the most drastic effect on how many girls you match with on Tinder.
I’m not going to tell you to go out there and do exactly what I did. Everyone can improve their looks in their own way. But what I did was that I found pictures of models who get tons of matches on Tinder by searching on Google, and then I modeled my own grooming and appearance after theirs.
If they were wearing a leather jacket to give a bit of a bad boy appearance, I did the same. If they had a jacket with no shirt on, so did I. Were they wearing aviator sunglasses? I wore aviator sunglasses.
The key thing about this is that it is a testing process and you should not feel down or depressed if a particular image didn’t work for you.
It is NOT YOU that the girls on Tinder are rejecting when they swipe left on you. It is YOUR PICTURE THAT YOU TOOK that girls are rejecting.
If you take a blurry picture that makes you look like shit, do you think she’s gonna swipe right on that? No.
Here’s the kicker though… If you take a garbage pic and EVEN JUST ONE of your pics in your Tinder profile is that garbage pic… the girl will want to stay on the safe side and just swipe left on you.
So you need to make sure that every pic on your profile has been tested individually and is a winner.
This is similar to how marketers “split test” web pages to figure out which one their audience is most likely to convert best from. The only way to find out which page converts best is to test, test, and test until they have a winner. Marketers don’t get rejected if one of their pages doesn’t convert… so why are you getting upset over a crummy pic that didn’t get matches?
Alright, so here’s what you need to do… go on google and look up “Tinder proof” or clickbait stuff with guys who have posted images of themselves and their results on Tinder. Take note of the guys who get massive amounts of matches and DTF girls messaging them. And here’s the most vital part… model your image off of them. In marketing, you can take shortcuts by searching the internet for web pages that have already been tested and proven to convert… and that is exactly what you will be doing by following this strategy.
You’re basically finding a winning Tinder profile that has been proven to convert and you’re modeling your own profile off of that for minimal chances of failure.
Here is a sample Tinder profile that has gotten ridiculous results on Tinder. The guy basically has his pick of the litter when it comes to Tinder:
Here are pics of my Tinder profile that I modeled off the pics of the model:
Notice how I was a little more aggressive with the nude style of pics than the guy I modeled my pics off of. The reason is that my pics don’t generally look as attractive as the guy whose pics I am modeling off of (I’m probably not as photogenic as him).
By the way, just had to say this, I know that looks are subjective and every girl has a different idea of what she finds attractive, but you have to remember that we aren’t talking about LOOKS… we’re talking about YOUR PICS. This is a big difference that most guys fail to grasp, and thus they attach their emotions to their pics. Girls are judging your pics, not you. So don’t attach any emotions to your pics.
The problem in my case was that I didn’t have access to professional photographers who would make me look crazy attractive like that model guy does. So my solution to it was to get aggressive with sexualizing my Tinder profile.
Girls are more attracted to dominance than they are to looks. This is why you see ugly frat guys who look like bodybuilders getting laid with petite model looking girls.
Side note: Now I’m not saying I’m ugly. I’ve gotten compliments from girls before. However, I gotta admit that in certain lighting and certain angles, I can look unattractive. That is the case for everyone, I’d say. This is the reason most guys don’t get Tinder matches. They don’t try hard enough to take good pics, and even if they do… they still unknowingly add an occasional ugly pic into their pic portfolio.
But yea back to the topic… following the notion that girls are attracted to blunt guys who are unashamed of expressing their “bad naughty side” and are complete risk takers, I had an idea that I should be a bit risky with my pics and go almost nude. And the payoff was huge, as you’ll soon see. As a rule, the less photogenic you think you are, the more dominant and sexualized your pics should be. If you’re not a model, you probably can’t get away with wearing a yellow spongebob shirt and not showing any skin lol.
Side note 2: Sexualizing your pics also has the effect of letting girls know you mean business. This means that all the tire-kickers and time wasters will swipe left on you, allowing you to match with other girls who mean business.
Keep in mind also that I was not able to immediately replicate the pictures of the Tinder model. I had to sit down and create a weight lifting gameplan because I did not have as much muscle as the Tinder model. Over 3 months, I went to the gym diligently so that I would be able to take pics that showed the most attractive version of myself.
And that was when I took the pictures. The results were stunning…
This video shows it all:
Note: Never use your real name on Tinder. Create a fake Facebook account and then use Tinder with that. In this case, you can see in the video that I was using the name “David.”
You can see that the amount of matches I got was unbelievable. And it kept growing.
This is what I like to call the “flood effect” and usually takes place after you’ve tested your pics down to the ground (it can also happen if you simply start modeling your pics after something that is already working, which is what I did).
Okay… so you’ve started getting more matches… but we’re not done yet.
You’d better know how to follow up with the matches if you wanna get laid. (See what I mean? It’s a holistic skill. One without the other is no good. But when all pieces of the puzzle are together, you start getting laid way too much for your own good.)
Here’s a Tinder match who matched with me, and I expertly followed up with her and met up with her within an hour or so after actually matching with her on Tinder. Once we met up… we started making out in front of my apartment and I took her inside and pounded her til the neighbors could hear dirty sex noises.
Tinder Case Study: Alexis — Real Proof of Results
The girl above works as a model in NYC and is from Brooklyn.
I had no idea that it was possible to score sex within an hour of matching a girl from Tinder, but after a few meetups like this one… I was regularly pulling off insane shit like this.
As I mentioned in the beginning of this article, I actually managed to bang 3 girls in 1 day on Thanksgiving day. I studied what I did on that day like crazy and devised a strategy for banging multiple girls in 1 day from Tinder. It’s a bit more advanced and is reserved only for premium Hookups On Autopilot members. We only sell our premium content to subscribers.
Anyways… What you may have noticed in that interaction with Alexis is that she was immediately very receptive to meeting up with me.
She was a YES girl.
Most girls will be MAYBE girls… and do you know why?
It’s because your profile is not perfectly tested to the ground. It’s because she still *thinks* she can do better than you.
But when you test your profile and pics to the ground, what happens inside her head is that she *clearly sees no other option within her league who would be a better option for sex than you currently are*.
THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT.
That is the effect you need to be striving towards.
Why settle for matching with tons of “MAYBE” girls?
YOU SHOULD ONLY SETTLE FOR MATCHING WITH TONS OF “YES” GIRLS.
The difference between easy access pass to pussy from Tinder and fighting an uphill battle and having to use clever, witty strategies to convince a girl after a couple weeks of “plowing” through her resistance is usually pre-determined by how well tested your profile and pics were.
And that’s pretty much it.
Once you meet up, if you’re even remotely skilled at escalating with women (and remember that this is also part of that holistic skillset I was talking about earlier), you will probably have sex within a few minutes of meeting her.
If you’re not skilled at physical escalation you need to practice. Go out and get rejected on weekend nights for being a bit too overt in your advances. Risk rejection. Risk grabbing the girls hand and leading her. Risk getting close and initiating a make-out within the first few seconds of meeting her.
You wanna know how it went down with Alexis? I didn’t go out to a diner. I didn’t go out to a bar. I didn’t do any of that weak shit.
I received a text from her that she is outside (while I waited in my apartment). I went outside and saw her smile and look down in submission. That behavioral cue told me that she was ready to make-out and get physical right from the beginning.
Then I made out with her right on the street. She was a complete stranger and was outside my apartment waiting for a date lol.
I then grabbed her hand, led her inside, and as soon as the door locked, I grabbed her and threw her on the bed and started escalating like a pervert.
If you want more detail, well then you’ll just have to subscribe to my site, because I don’t expose overly sexual stuff on the public portion of my blog.
And there it is… How to get laid on Tinder.
The thing that most guys will do after reading this post is that they will have this little voice inside their head that says: “That guy’s good looking” or “That will never work for me” or “Sounds like too much work”.
How’s this for good looking?
Pretty bad pic of me. And it’s all due to lighting and camera angle, etc.
And guess what… I tested it on Tinder and it failed to get me matches.
You would have thought that because I have girls kissing my face… I would get tons of matches, right?
Nope… I matched with stupid feminists who just wanted to troll me when I used this particular pic.
It wasn’t till I started modeling my stuff off models who were getting massive results on Tinder that I started seeing crazy success on Tinder.
It’s your turn now…
What are you gonna do? Keep approaching girls during your break at work, only to get 1 or 2 numbers that flake? Are you gonna rely on taking girls home during those cold wintry nights when no one wants to go out?
Or are you gonna get off your ass and apply the gold mine I just presented you regarding how to get laid on Tinder?
Only time will tell. ;)
Take care.
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The biggest and most important concept in dating that so many men just don’t understand is the concept of supply and demand.
I am a big supporter of the idea that dating is essentially a business and getting laid is kind of like making sales in a business. A crucial factor in determining whether your business (dating life) will be successful is to [b]first look at supply and demand.[/b]
Let’s analyze your city (where you are currently living) for a minute.
[b]Ask yourself: Are there actually enough women living around me such that meeting them via mobile dating apps / online dating sites would be possible?[/b]
The answer to this question is of HUGE importance in whether you’ll be successful with Tinder vs whether you’ll waste 3 months chasing fake bots disguised as hot women. Trust me… we at Hookups On Autopilot know… we’ve tested it.
Do this exercise for me right now… I want you to go to Google and search the following exact phrase:
[b]“Wikipedia [your city name] population”[/b]
For example, for my city of New York, I searched:
“Wikipedia New York, NY population”
Here is what I saw in google search results:
Click on the Wikipedia article and you will get a good idea of how many people are in your city…
Alright… so on the right side of the Wikipedia article on my city, the first thing to check is the metro population, which is just over 20 million people. I can see that [u][b]the city itself has a population of around 8.5 million people[/b][/u]. And the next most important thing for me to look at is the population density, which we can see is [b]28K people per square mile[/b]. Keep in mind that the population density here is the density of people within a mile of each other throughout the entire state (not just the city). Your city’s population could be higher or lower. [b]For the purposes of Tinder, a higher city population density is much better.[/b]
The next thing we want to look at is [b]the male to female ratio and the age groups of the city that we live in[/b], so go to google and search:
[b]“[Your city] male to female ratio”
[/b]
The first result shows me that currently the population consists of 53% women, and 47% men. [b]For Tinder, you want a higher female population than male population.[/b] This makes NYC a winner since a majority of people in NYC are female.
Now the final thing to look at is the age group and how many of the women in NYC are within the age range that I would possibly hook up with. Let’s find that out now… Go to Google and search for:
[b]“[Your city] Age demographics”[/b]
For my search, I came across an excellent resource and here is a screenshot of my findings:
(Source: http://www.baruch.cuny.edu/nycdata/population-geography/age_distribution.htm)
Now that we have all the data gathered, let’s make some quick calculations:
If I live in Manhattan and my goal is to meet girls who are age 18 to 39, then how many women will I have access to (in the best case scenario)?
[b]Use this formula:
TOTAL CITY POPULATION x (PERCENTAGE OF FEMALES/100) x (COMBINED AGE PERCENTAGES/100) = TOTAL WOMEN AVAILABLE IN YOUR CITY[/b]
In my case, this comes out to:
8,550,405 x (53%/100) x ((7.1%+9.4%+8.5%+7.3%)/100) = ???
8,550,405 x (53%/100) x (32.3%/100) = ???
8,550,405 x (0.53) x (0.323) = [b]1,463,743[/b]
So, basically I have almost 1.5 million women to choose from who live around me (near enough to drive to me to meet up for a date).
Now, [u]it is not likely that all 1.5 million of these women have Tinder installed in their phones[/u]. But, it IS likely that they have at least one of the many dating apps currently available installed on their phone. This is why I highly recommend downloading like 5+ different dating apps and using programming software to have your computer swipe right on girls and match with girls while you sit back, relax, and drink a smoothie or something.
Let’s go a bit further in our analysis and we will soon realize that [u]a certain percentage of the girls who ARE using a dating app are ugly, fat, or unattractive[/u], but [b]there is no way to know statistically how many girls are ugly[/b]. This is why I recommend getting an auto-swiper and swiping all the girls within 25 to 50 miles of you and just letting the matches trickle in. Then, YOU can be the selector and CHOOSE which girls you want to go out with, and which girls YOU want to ignore.
[list][b]Side Note:[/b] Men who are extremely attractive want to avoid swiping right on every girl because that would result in 10,000+ matches and it would be hard to sort through the girls at that point, but if you are an average guy who has made a big effort to max out your looks, you should be swiping right on every girl because chances are you still will not be getting 10,000+ matches like a male model would.[/list]
[b]What to do if you live in a city smaller than 1 million people and you want to use online dating to meet women:[/b]
As I mentioned in the last paragraph. NOT EVERY girl who lives in your city is going to have 1 specific dating app installed on her phone. In order to be able to have a shot with every girl in your small city, you should install every dating app that your city is known to use. For example: in my hometown of Columbus, Ohio, a lot of girls also use Okcupid and POF. So, in order to have access to the most amount of girls possible in the city of Columbus (which only has a 700,000 population BTW) I would download Tinder + Okcupid + POF + many other apps, and start auto-swiping using my computer and just set everything on autopilot. Then I would come back a few days later, and start messaging girls who matched with me and whom I am interested in.
[b]What to do if you live in bumble-fuck Kansas:
[/b]
Stop reading the stuff I have on this site regarding dating apps and online dating. That stuff will most likely not work for you, because you need a population of at least 1 million people living around you in order for dating apps / online dating to work.
[b]City Population is Inversely Proportional to Your Required SMV when it comes to online dating:[/b]
What does that mean?
It means that the lower the population of the city that you live in, the higher your sexual market value needs to be in order to get laid with the hottest girls in that city.
This is great because it essentially means that you don’t have to have model looks to bang models in big cities.
However, if you live in a small city and you look average… even if you max out your looks and try to be the best version of yourself, you may fall short because the atmosphere is more competitive there. The demand is high and the supply of women is short. Hence, a small group of men with good looks are usually banging all the super-hot girls in that small city.
[b]Moral of the story: [/b]Don’t limit yourself by living in a small city. Move to a big city and have great logistics and you will be able to sit on your ass and get laid with models off of a cheap dating app like Tinder (even if you’re just an average looking guy).
[b]Big P.S.[/b] You will still need the texting skills and physical escalation skills to close the girls you meet up with in big cities. Don’t become egotistical and start thinking that just because you’re above average looking, you have a goldmine, because you don’t. Why do you think good looking men still have trouble getting laid despite getting tons of matches on Tinder? (Trust me, it’s a holistic skill that I can help you attain, if you join me in my e-mail newsletter. Subscribe now and I will show you how to attain the entire skillset, from A to Z)
