Your own decisions can't be optimized with you put others on a pedestal. Depedestalization is always necessary. Notice others' flaws.
When you're stuck in an emotional state from which you can't escape, such as fear or anxiety, is just the time when logic is most useful. Categorize and list the things you're emotional about, and cut each one with logic.
The longer you wait to stand up for yourself, the more you're going to alienate people who aren't used to a version of you with boundaries.
I think Billy Joel summed up Donald Trump best: "You may be right; I may be crazy. But it just might be the lunatic you're looking for."
@deepthrill Feminist's hair doesn't have enough unnatural colors. Points for the daughter having brown hair since that's a dominant genetic trait--that probably is his genetic offspring. :)
@deepthrill Very true. Check out this Deadbedrooms post: https://trp.red/t/4p 32-year-old high-earning executive male dating a 39-year-old minimum wage worker female and he walks on eggshells around her anger and contempt.
@ipreferpi Let us know how it feels. I've played around with intermittent fasting. The issue is that a large meal towards the end of the day can sometimes disrupt my sleep with blood sugar spikes.
