What's up, guys. I've banged over 150 girls in the past few years, and here are my rules for text game.
They're short, simple, and sweet. Do this and your results will 10x, I promise you.
If you want to read more on how to text girls, check out that article.
Anyways, let's get started.
Guys freak out over all this complicated shit. "Should I wait 3 hours to text her back?"
"How long before I set up a date?"
Blah, blah, blah.
When it comes to text game, keep it simple. Build comfort at first, and then set up a hard day/time to meet.
If she doesn't respond, you can try a "re-engagement" text, but in general, just move on and get another girl's number.
This is another one of the biggest mistakes I see guys making.
They freak out when she doesn't respond.
Who cares? It's your life, girls are just an addition.
If she doesn't respond for a few hours, ignore it. If she doesn't respond for a day or two, ignore it.
If she goes a whole week without responding, consider texting her a funny meme to re-engage the conversation.
Again, don't waste time on girls who don't text you back.
99% of the time, it's because of something you can't fix, like:
So don't sweat it and just move onto another girl.
When you're texting a girl, don't waste your time trying to spend a whole year building attraction.
You need to strike while the iron is hot. Period. This is always the case with girls.
If you just got her number, text her THAT DAY, just telling her who it is (while it's fresh in her mind).
Then, over the next 1-2 days, build a little bit of comfort (by establishing commonalities).
Then, by day 3, you should ask her out. "What are you doing tonight?" is a simple, but good way to ask.
If she doesn't commit to going out with you by day 3, just ignore her and move on. You did your job, now it's time for her to do hers.
If she is in fact interested in you, she will get back to you, and start re-engaging you. Again, move it towards a date.
So many guys new to the red pill always ask the same questions...
"Is it alpha if I hold the door for a girl? Is it beta if I take her on a date?"
The truth is that being an alpha male actually comes down to your MINDSET, rather than your BEHAVIORS.
Here's what I mean by this.
When a beta male does something, he's doing it for a number of reasons:
So therefore, anything he does, no matter how "alpha" it might appear to be on paper, will actually come across as extremely needy, weak, and supplicating.
Likewise, when an alpha male does something, he's doing it for one reason, and one reason only...
Because he fucking wants to.
This is why, no matter how "beta" something might SEEM on paper, when an alpha male does it, girls will love it, and guys will look up to it.
It's why if a millionaire playboy (like Dan Bilzerian) takes a girl on a date, it's not viewed as beta. "Oh my God," the girl will think. "He chose me!!! He could have been dating 100's of other girls, but he chose me!! WOW!" she'll say.
This is why, fundamentally, being an alpha male is a mindset, and not a set of behaviors.
Don't ask: "How to I be alpha?"
Instead, ask: "What do I ACTUALLY want? Not what society tells me, not what women tell me, but what do I actually want?"
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