So many guys new to the red pill always ask the same questions...

"Is it alpha if I hold the door for a girl? Is it beta if I take her on a date?"

The truth is that being an alpha male actually comes down to your MINDSET, rather than your BEHAVIORS.

Here's what I mean by this.

When a beta male does something, he's doing it for a number of reasons:

• To gain female approval
• To avoid social pressure
• To avoid feeling fear/negative emotions
• To avoid confrontation

So therefore, anything he does, no matter how "alpha" it might appear to be on paper, will actually come across as extremely needy, weak, and supplicating.

Likewise, when an alpha male does something, he's doing it for one reason, and one reason only...

Because he fucking wants to.

This is why, no matter how "beta" something might SEEM on paper, when an alpha male does it, girls will love it, and guys will look up to it.

It's why if a millionaire playboy (like Dan Bilzerian) takes a girl on a date, it's not viewed as beta. "Oh my God," the girl will think. "He chose me!!! He could have been dating 100's of other girls, but he chose me!! WOW!" she'll say.

This is why, fundamentally, being an alpha male is a mindset, and not a set of behaviors.

Don't ask: "How to I be alpha?"

Instead, ask: "What do I ACTUALLY want? Not what society tells me, not what women tell me, but what do I actually want?"

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Tip JakinJake for their post.