So gents I need your help.

Before quarantine I was 190lbs and about 30lbs away from being shredded. Quarantine hit and I gained a fuckload of weight (1.5 years later im currently sitting at 265lbs fml).

a year and a bit ago, (about 3 months into quarantine when I weighed 230lbs) I met a latina girl and decided that since the clubs were closed, events were cancelled, parties were illegal in canada, im miserably out of shape rendering online "dating" is laughably bad that I'd make her my "quarantine gf"....

fast forward, canada is still closed (most clubs/events are closed) and i'm even fatter than when I met her (265lbs currently & I've been dieting and working out with a goal weight of 165-175)....

The problem is she's super dramatic and she's always creating problems wether it's about me not touching her enough (ive tried to explain to her that my hormones are all fucked up and my libido is fucked cause of it) or she complains that I "love my exes more" because I "showered with them sooner in the relationship" or im making her fat or whatever new problem she decides to create.

I can't find a way to get her to stop. I've tried ignoring it, I've tried agreeing and amplifying it, I've tried having a long discussion and problem solving or letting her vent and cry her eyes out, I've tried telling her to stfu and stop being a child. The most any of these methods produce is 1 day worth of her not being insane and then she's back back being and like this the day after....She's a sweet girl very fragile and I'm her first real bf. (She's 20 and moves here from El Salvador, im 22 and have had 2 gfs which she is obsessed about to the point of commenting on my exes pics "cute".

My big mistake was telling her anything about my past I know, when we started dating I'd been out of the game for a while so I was rusty.

How do I deal with this?

@destraht it's more of a pros and cons. My values haven't changed. I think it's stupid and the situation society is allowing is wrong. I don't think a jab is gonna kill me and so for me, getting it was a means of navigation. Without the shot I have no way to earn, I have no way to leave the country and earn elsewhere. I have no marketable skills and no nest egg to start my own business. I'm too young to get a loan and I have no reputation or resume which would indice angel investors. The army requires the jab and most work places require it here not to mention social events/venues...going to trade school in September is my only option and I have no way to get any kind of leverage over my own life. Im not scared of the shot. I trust it. Its annoying they forced me to do something. I don't like authorities over reaching but in this scenario it was a necessary evil like paying taxes that go to single mother whores. A means to an end. I think your misunderstanding or over imagining/embellishing my mindset going into it.

@PK_Fire420 your friend sounds like an insufferable faggot. I wouldn't even bother talking to him after that. Just pretend he died and never hang out with people like that again. I'm the future a good way to vet this (and I do it with girls here in communist canada) is by dropping "triggerable" statements to see what kind of person they are. Start time and joke about women being in the kitchen and eventually ramp up until you're dropping the word retard and faggot and the occasional racial slur. It's a good way to ensure that you never accidentally kiss or befriend or get involved with a leftist social reject who can't take a joke and more importantly it let's you know if they're the kind of person who thinks it's appropriate to police your actions or speech....aka an insufferable faggot. I'm white and i did this on my latina gf when we started hanging and much to my surprise her father agrees with me (she tells me "my dad says that to" for half the shit I say). He thinks women should be homemakers, he thinks manual transmissions are for men, he makes jokes in Spanish about Muslims blowing us up while we're at restaurants and I'm sure he's not to fond of drag queen story time tho I've never asked him. Frankly I wish us white guys wouldntake a page out of the el Salvador handbook. Most white dudes are pussys..but anyways.... guess what. All of that based unapolagetic masculinity has resulted in his child aka my gf being a feminine and submissive and proper girl...as opposed to the other 99% of the trolls we call women with the social skills of cardboard and the only redeemable qualities are their makeup skills and blowjobs....

@adam-l covid is a sham tbh. Next it'll be the ligma varient and then it'll be that we need to get estrogen shots lmao. It's all bullshit. I've been actively out and about here and haven't so much as caught a cold. This is a political weapon...me and my buddies (after resisting for as long as we could) finally bit the bullet and got the first dose of Pfizer the other day and frankly despised every second of it. Only got it because my country basically said that I can't work, go to school, get a trade or go out without it and so for me it was a matter of how much do I trust God to keep me from harm when I can't for myself. But no its not "safe" the long term studies they did lasted all of 6 weeks. This shit is an experimental gene therapy. The fact that emily she/they acab is certain this is safe made me want to get it even less. But we make sacrifices. People smoke all the time and that can cause cancer/fuck with ur cells. So I'm not really worried about a medicine that's been scrutinized by doctors to the best of their limited time and resources. Am I worried about covid tho? Absolutely not. Will I be giving death stares to the crabby Joe's manager who asks me for my vaccine papers? Absolutely...the only benefit of this shot is it'll make it easier to become asymptomatic and spread the boogeyman virus to asshole boomers. So hopefully I can do my part to society and do that.