@Aging-Chad Women are the way that they are because it overall works. They can be myopic though. If they don't know anything about how the world works then they can assign strength and weakness in whichever way that they want. An easy example would be a skinny guy with a fake deep voice and arrogant attitude. He could be a loser, but if the woman doesn't know anything about how society is actually functioning, and isn't good at reading between the lines then he'd be attractive. If she could clearly see that he's a nobody (due to more insight or higher intelligence) then she wouldn't be. Also if you live in a culture that doesn't allow men to beat other pushy, loud, fake, arrogant and rude men down to their place then a woman can read that false signal as that he is the top man in the tribe due to how little of a shit that he gives and how everyone allows it (when they really shouldn't be if society was working well).

@Aging-Chad I've had to drop a lot of Russian women because they're merciless in attacking during any moment of perceived weakness. They're often super bad this way. A whole lot of the time it's a cultural gap when they would attack my flank because a Russian man wouldn't leave it unguarded. Then if you do actually really lose frame (and her respect) in an objective manner then it's just hell to get it back. It's like that they start digging trenches on any gains. So I walked away from many of them simply because they weren't worth the protracted trench warfare. I can only imagine that if you were "bitch" for many years with her then she'd be dug in with reinforced concrete like a bunker. Then how she sees you (regardless of if it's accurate today) is probably just pretty close to what her dad was, etc.

@Aging-Chad Well, if she's just holding down the fort while you're off moving around then that will create a huge energy level difference. I don't mean like bad energy but rather like electrons circling at different levels. I know that this isn't really a good thing unless you have some specific strategies for rectifying that. Probably if I cared about that situation then I'd ship her to me, or to ship her away from the boring house that she's occupying. If I was here and there moving around then making her also move around would just make her be able to vibe with me more.

I own my little house outright, and my property taxes are $15-20/year. That means that I'm able to think of my house as a high level tool that exists to serve me. So I'd just ship her off to stay with her mother for a few weeks, etc. If you have the money then you can move people around just like parcels. Put them where they need to be. You could think of it like farming in a way. As men we're meant to organize everything so that everything is where it needs to be for good stuff to happen. So having her sitting around rotting in a house might seem like success in America in particular but that is a fucked up culture, and so don't really pay attention to any of that supposed success story narrative there. America is a failure and so you have to reimagine it all or you get bad results.