@Floreborn

Alright boys, here’s the short version: I used to think reading a stack of dating books would turn me into James Bond. Spoiler: it didn’t. What it did give me was a PhD in “theory” and about zero results in real life. Let’s just say I was basically the guy doing all the homework but never getting picked for the field trip.

Fast-forward a bit: after plenty of awkward dates, bad openers, and one or two “hug closes” (don’t ask), I finally started to get it. Turns out the game isn’t about memorizing 99 lines. More like becoming the guy who doesn’t even need them.

Now I’m working on all fronts: body, mind, wallet, and frame. Still mess up sometimes, but at least now the stories are funny and educational.

I’m here to swap war stories, share a laugh at the dumb stuff we all do, and maybe learn a trick or two from the veterans. If you’ve ever thought, “Damn, did I really just say that out loud?”,then we’re probably on the same wavelength.

See ya,

Flo.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@MidgetSpinner

Submissive girl I'm seeing suddenly poured on massive shit tests

Been seeing a girl for over a week now. We've been frequently meeting, staying over at both my place and hers. Things have mostly been very good between us - great sex, great chemistry, great intimacy and affection, great conversation etc.

I spent all day with her today (mistake) for the first time, and things were smooth sailing as usual, but then in the evening she started to become very playful and manic almost. I don't mind the playfulness, as I can be playful back, but she was becoming a bit too much in other ways, for example:

She kept calling me gay this, gay that. I was just ignoring it mostly, or teased her back. I'm no stranger to shit tests or joking around at someone's expense, but she kept doing it and doing it to the point it was getting tedious.

Another thing was that she then started implying I was some sort of a bitch saying, "she fucks me" (she doesn't) because I like it when she gets on top and rides, and then the final straw was her getting out a vibrator and rubbing it against my nipple. I put up with this for over an hour, and then decided I had enough of this attempted emasculation bullshit and left.

Before I did, I told her straight up that she was being a bit too hype and annoying and that I was leaving. She said, "well this is part of how I am, if you don't like it then go". So I did.

This girl is 1000% into me, and I do like her too - everything was cool but it was almost as though she was a completely different person last night. She went from being this sweet, affectionate and compliant girl I'd been experiencing all week, to some bipolar/hyper aggressive girl all of a sudden. It was strange, it felt like she was actively trying to push me away.

For context: I'm 37 male, she's 28 female. She has been consistently obsessed and devoted to me the entire time we've been seeing eachother. I'm not saying she lost any interest tonight, but her weird fucking behaviour put me right off.

I'm just wondering if anyone could tell me wtf this sudden behaviour is lmao. I haven't messaged her since. I didn't get angry or defensive, I just simply said "You're being a bit too much, and I'm going" and I just left.

Of course she tried to push you away. You're thirty-seven years old with one-itis for a chick you've only known for a few weeks. That's a red flag if ever there was one now matter how unstable the female herself might otherwise be. Study the book and maintain discipline.

@retired_beta

AMOG Fail?

Went to the bar the other night to chill and as I was walking to my car after it closed I inserted myself into a set of 2 girls (roomates) and a guy outside his car parked next to mine. Started chatting with both the guy and Girl A who was pretty receptive. It became clear after a few minutes that the girls weren't that into him and were only sticking around because of the prospect of drugs at his house and also they lived in the same town so it would've made for a cheaper Uber ride from his place to theirs.

At first, I recognized this dudes game was pretty trash and he didn't know how to pass any shit tests. But I didn't really know what the plans/logistics were at this point so I decided to stay cool with him throughout the interaction. I knew I looked liked the better sexual option comparatively, so I started to chat up the more talkative Girl A and passed some of her shit tests. The dude chimmed in a few times and got a few disgusted looks which I don't think he picked up on so I tried to subtly to wing for him without seeming like I was placating. Quickly stopped after I realized that he couldn't be helped, so I decided to still stay cool with him but in a more neutral way.

After, I switched my focus to Girl B who was more chill and honestly, better looking. I semi-isolate and let her tell me about her life while I slowly escalated until they decided to get ready to leave. The girls waited in the car while me and dude talked for a minute. I asked what his game plan was and which chick he was going for (got a vague response) and he agreed to let me follow him in my car in to go back to his place for the afterparty.

This is where things get funny. He drove in a circle around the area while speeding and was obviously trying to lose me. He parked on the side of the road so I got out to see what the situation was. When I got to his car he let who I assume was his fellow beta-friend in the car. I'm sure this was already his plan from the get-go and in his head, he didn't need some AMOG stepping on his toes. At this point Girl A was verbally displeased ("I think I'm just gonna go home") but I didn't really have any cards to play here, as everyone was in the car except me and clearly the dude didn't want me involved anymore so I just decide to peace out, then they leave.

I think what I should've done is gotten Girl B's contact information when I had the chance in case they wanted to ditch the guy later. I also should've kept a closer eye on the dude's impression of me instead of assuming we were on the same team. At least this way I could've saw the obvious betrayal coming and planned accordingly. But all-in-all it was a good learning experience.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@Lostandhound

How to make plates that have had a threesome together already, make comfortable/easy about spending some nonsexual time together?

Last time I got my plates to spend some time together after sex. They prepared breakfast right after sex and did some kitchen stuff still naked while I was elsewhere.

Then I took em for a ride/walk to a nice spot, sat them at the back so I have peace driving and preventing one trying to force getting my attention and made the other one jealous.

IDK is walking around small kitchen flashing a pussy while I'm not there a sign of being uncomfortable - I rather assume it is build up to slowly trickle play me.

One of the plates told me she is not comfortable about it later on and she doesnt want to hang out with the other one, but that might be as well her game to just eliminate a competition or not to be in direct competition. The other one is willing to do more concessions so doesn't complain about it.

If I have had another plate that is ready to do this shit then I would have an answer, but...

They both are not bad plates and I would rather give a go at gaming them the right way than cycle plates [especially I dont have any more for the same purpose].

I guess I could play the withdrawal game suggesting abundance and sure it is one option, except one of this plates is temporary by design so I would rather try a different approach as I don't have that much time to learn something new nor to play long brakes game.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.