@shootinglikekobe

Tips on balancing scaling a business & dating?

Looking for advice from the more grown fellas on here.

Does anybody have any advice on how to properly balance scaling a business vs dating? Used to spend a lot of time messing with women in my early/mid 20s, but about a year ago, things in life changed and I completely switched my focus to entrepreneurship. Things have been fantastic in that sense. Making more money than I ever have, love what I do everyday, and love the control I have over my life. That said, I haven't been putting that much time into women. Have had a couple around that I put 0 effort into (they really choose me), but I obviously am not in it with them, nor look at them as somebody I'd like to be publicly associated with. Not in a they're ugly sense, but just I know how my history and know I can/should do better. I'm confident that if I put effort into that side of my life, I'll succeed, but with the success of my business and the nonstop nature of being my own boss/scaling, I obviously prioritize that, which leads to me not fulfilling the side of life with women. For example, though rusty, I'm definitely not scared/intimidated by women, but I'm never at bars/rarely at social events to even be in a position to make moves because I'm typically at home/out of town working. I'm not even worried about the spending part. To me, I see it as me spending time with somebody who can't provide real benefits to my business/my life financially. On a deeper level, at this point, I've kind of lost respect for a lot of women as so many get by on little qualities other than sexuality, and don't know what it's like to really work/earn something completely independently (i.e. run a business). That thought is in my head whenever I meet a pretty girl, and it just turns me off.

I'm conscious enough to know that there's something I could be doing wrong, so would appreciate any constructive criticism w/ respect to my POV and how I could be at fault w/ how I view things.

Overall, I'm not anxious about the priorities I've chosen per say, but just wanting to get back in the game without losing any momentum in business.

Thoughts?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

RIP Charlie Kirk | Controlled Opposition Ends in Martyrdom

www.youtube.com/watch?v=rY4R-X-mrrk

Charlie Kirk is dead and the digital mourning/rage machine is in overdrive. Sometimes, an asset is worth more as a martyr than a mouthpiece.

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@houseoftolstoy

Regarding Charlie Kirk, I had a very cautious opinion on him. My impression of him being such a prominent figure in right wing politics was the equivalent of the high school quarterback who just so happened to be the son of the team's coach. That is, I am not entirely sure that he got such prominence based solely on his merits. And it might be the case that the son of the coach shows some competency and plays well as the quarterback. And I could say the same about Charlie Kirk, as he certainly seemed to maintain relevance, even if it might have been manufactured initially.

The reactions of many on the left in various social media platforms is no surprise either. There were plenty of gleeful posts that are glad he is dead, though it comes off as far more spiteful since he was murdered at a very young age rather than someone who died old and with health problems, such as Rush Limbaugh. I know there were voices on the left that spoke out against him being killed and condemned anyone taking joy in his death, though we cannot know for sure whether or not this is geniune or simply performative. From a public eye standpoint, it makes sense to condemn violent extremism regardless of your personal feelings. And in a way, even if you are just putting on a performance, it does show you to be truly different from those who publicly celebrate his death.

Charlie Kirk was by no means extreme in his viewpoints, regardless of what is said about him from those on the left. For many of them, anyone moderately right wing is considered a hard core right wing extremist. So I do not think that they will be convinced that Charlie Kirk being killed will bring about an even further right wing figure. Because they are all Evil Fascist Nazi's in their eyes.

RIP Charlie Kirk

@GetMoreBooks

How to Pursue in Group Settings/Deciding who to pursue vs. going with the flow

Had a payoff for a social gathering tonight, but upon reflection not too sure how I feel about it overall. Basically I went out with a social group I'm a part of to a bar after. Big group, 2 girls of this group were friends. Girl A was hot, but I had much better conversation with Girl B. Basically the group went to 2 bars, and while I was walking with the group, Girl B and I had some conversation, and it was going pretty well, so I ended up talking to her more. Girl B and Girl A sat near me, but since Girl B ended up right next to me, I ended up talking to her more and pursing her more due to proximity. However, looking back at the night, I think Girl A might of been sending me signals (not sure, never had it happen before). Girl A made sure to know I was invited when the group was changing location, and asked me a couple questions about myself. I thought she was just being nice, but now I think she may of been interested. I ended up getting girl B's number, so I'll go out and get coffee with her this week, but kinda feeling like I went the safe route(girl B), instead of shooting my shot with the hotter girl(girl A). Girl B had good body language though,she turned her whole torso to face me while we were talking at the bar, and was still cute if not a bit awkward. Overall the night went really well, and my ability to hold conversations has improved a lot.

My questions are:

1) How to tell being interested in you vs. being nice.

2) Is it always best to try shoot your shot with the hottest girl with the group, or the one who sends you clear signals? I just went with the flow with girl B and said fuck it and asked for her number before I left, but looking back I never made a conscious choice on pursing Girl B over Girl A.

3) How to talk to a girl who shows interest in you off the bat? I had no idea how to respond to Girl A or escalate, so I think I went the safer route, of basic non-game conversation with Girl B, keeping it to safe topics. I've tried teasing a bit recently with other girls but I've had zero success, where I've been getting better at conversation in general, so I was able to keep it flowing pretty without any awkward silences. I think I may of been thrown off by Girl A if she was sending signals, so I wasn't sure what to do.

Attempt at Answering own questions:

1) I don't think you can, you should just shoot your shot with whichever girl you want, not caring if she's just being nice or not. I think my mistake here was I just went with the flow without intention.

2) Clear signals is probably the best route, since it improves odds for success.

3) I wasn't sure how to engage with Girl A so I didn't respond, I think as I get better at game and directing the conversation I should pursue the hotter girl using game from where I practiced. I was also hesitant to purse girl A since I see her twice a week at this group, and it would have sucked if I messed it up, but Girl B was just there with Girl A so it felt like the safer option.

Study the book. It already answers these questions.

@Steve2002

Will approaching work at university?

I have newly enrolled into university, delayed it 2 years because I needed to work in order to save up for a hair transplantation. This university of mine is fully loaded with good looking girls, and I have above avarage looks(around 7/10), I did approaches in other places, they were good. But in my understanding, approaching is kind of "reserved" for only happen in the WILD, not in a non-primitive, prestigeous place like the university. My strategy would be "targeting" 5-6 girls who seem to be the best for me, then approach them (ideally all of them). But my biggest fear is that I approach a girl, then she rejects me, and tells her friends that I tried the approach, then in a few days the whole university knows about the incident. After that I can see when I will succeed with another one of them.. like never . So in my understanding having this kind of prejudice against me that I am a serial killer (serial approacher) in a secluded community like university , is somewhat of a death sentence in a preselection sense which is in the top 5 factors of attraction. But if it works, then I might end up in a wild roller coaster/endless loop of success. So I'm planning to try approaching, but also interested about hearing some expert inputs on this.

Study the book and approach the girls who you find interesting as you see fit. If you're attending university in the U.S. and find the interactions with the girls on your campus to be stale, consider trying the nearby junior colleges for a change. Best of luck to ya.

@redpillschool

If recent events have strengthened your resolve to hate a specific group (i.e. left, right, blacks, whites, etc) just remember that's the intended outcome.

I'm not going to comment on who is right or who should be hated. But I am going to say that to truly self-actualize, the first step is identifying when somebody is trying to shape your thoughts and emotions.

I've never been shy in sharing my conclusions that American conservatism is dead and that judeochristianity is neither classical judaism, Hebrew-ism, or the way understood as Christianity. So, it should be expected I didn't lend Charlie Kirk or his inner-ring ilk my ear, for him to pour his poison into.

While every prominent Christian seals their fate when they publicly turn their backs on Christ, I think A.I. video editing might be involved here, because when I slow the video down and look at his left hand, Charlie Kirk's ring moves from the third finger to his pinkie and begins to leap off as he falls to the side. His face also distorts in the way I've seen with A.I. rendered images, but that might explain all the high speed cameras which were at the event. These defects have been consistent from every angle I've seen of the shooting go down, which is odd because high speed cameras are comparable to chunky vhs cameras.

Also, someone on twitter mentioned Ben Shapiro's going to appear in Charlie Kirk's place which is a hell of a coincidence you'd have zero chance of divorcing me in firmly concluding that he's an the inner-ring's puppet being retired.

@kardon93

So how do you deal with an attractive women that is extremely interested in you?

Hey there guys, I have had girls going crazy for me, but it was always ugly or at max 6/10 HBs. Literally simping.

However Right now theres this 8/10 HBB at my work whos been simping me hard. Went on a date few days and everything went great, she wants to date again tomorrow.

Wierd thing I never dealed with a girl showing such high interest before that i actually liked back, and I havent found any guide about how to deal with women on this stance (High interest plus just starting to date).

I get texted all day from her, even If i take 8 hours to respond and try to cut it off a bit, i get almost instant responses and shes always trying to talk more.

I been applying a few dread game, and seems to be working fine, but dont wanna mess up cause every girl that I simped before I considered them ugly enough to just be ignored. Cheers.

Study the book. I generally don't encourage guys to pursue female coworkers simply due to how it can blow up in a guys face with so many chicks being psychotic. As you've already done so, I suggest that you update your resume and prepare to look for another job if this turns south.