@financialwar333

just did my first approaches. i met a girl called abigail who seemed in a hurry but she was smiling a lot and seemed flattered i talked to her but she had to leave quickly. the second girl was carrying a notebook and i asked her if she drew, she showed me some pictures and encouraged her to keep drawing more. she was 15 and im 20 so i didnt ask her for her number but i kinda wish i did now. i dont have any experiences with girls and she probably wouldve been good learning experience. i didnt get any #s but im super proud of myself. this shit isnt so hard and its motivating me to work on myself cause it proves that i am good enough and that there are women who might be interested in me. i have a whole journey ahead of me and i cant wait to talk to more women. thanks guys

Congratulations are definitely in order, then. You've mustered up the guts to talk to some girls you didn't know and while you didn't score phone numbers, you at least talked to them. That's a first step, so keep at it. If you've got a younger brother who's still in their mid teens, you should bring him along to see how it's done. If so, bring him along and introduce him to the younger girls in situations like those.

In the long term though, you should consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through free torrent and ebook sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor.

@Antelope

I’ve never seen any discussion on here about mail order brides.

How much do you even have to pay? That’s the big question for me. If it’s an affordable and obedient woman, there could be something in it.

You could skip all the silly bullshit like breaking them in and just have a house wench pre-trained.

Obviously you could nurture a relationship, but why bother doing that before she has citizenship?

Dominating that kind of relationship would be Machiavellian as fuck, but it’s all about the price. I don’t want to pay too much and hit a snag on the return clause, but yet I don’t want to pay too little because then I’d get bored and buy more.

What do you guys think?

You'd be better off investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through free torrent and ebook sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor.

If you're having little luck with finding women in your home country you can build a relationship with, odds are you won't do much better overseas. Most of the guys who do, tend to be guys who married non-white women who've been raised to think marrying a white man will magically solve all of their problems. I've known a good few firsthand cases where that didn't end as well as they'd hoped.

@Eurmo

I was kinda shocked yesterday.

A girl I'm dating saw a ‘guy friend’ the dude walked up and hugged her intensely and lifted her up. I know him too but I felt he ignored me a little. ( they are Portuguese im Dutch )

I felt awkward and didn't know what to do.

I've told her a couple of weeks ago how it's impossible for guys to have friends who are girls and not wanting to f$k.

Now there is one other thing...

I feel every time that this happens it triggers me a lot because of a underlying trauma, that I still need to solve..

The best friend of my dad left with my mom and my dad became lonely, depressed and eventually passed..

I'm not sure what to do or how to solve this.

I would love your advice guys

Because I don't want to get triggered this much and feel off for a couple of days

Thank you

It reads like given how your mother monkey branched to one of your fathers friends, you know how disposable a man can be to a woman firsthand. Whatever feelings you have over that I couldn't help you with. Pray for your late fathers soul and that you have a better outcome in your own life than him. Beyond that, only time and experience can help you overcome the loss of your late father and how he dealt with the failure of his marriage.

In future, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through free torrent and ebook sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor.

You've got good gut instincts. You've discovered that your "girlfriend", despite likely being average looking, has male orbiters and you're uncomfortable with that. @-Zavss_ offers simple sound advice, in that you shouldn't take your relationship with her seriously. For a mercenary female, a friend today can be a lover tomorrow, and that signs of potential disloyalty from a female hints at the lack of importance the relationship has to her. Better to find things like this out when you're only dating than after several years of marriage with children.

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