@Eurm Dread had an impact. Hence the super-attentive BJ
I'd have told her if she goes there with other lads without me then we aren't a couple anymore. Concerts are great places to shag anonymously and she probably damned well knows this. If she pretends otherwise she's openly lying to and disrespecting you.
I would let her do whatever she wanted to do. I set the rules, she does whatever she likes... the consequences happen.
You're not a champ, she's manipulating you. It's a massive red flag for a woman to try to use sex to get what she wants.
There's little more to say here... you made a bad LTR call. How many plates have you spun anyway?
@Jesterful Wherever you think you need to. We're not the ones living your life. The ultimate reality of being a man is that you must take responsibility. Starting with your own life and your own decisions. Only then are you ready to start making decisions for the women who wish to follow you.
@Jesterful Philosophically, Idk man. I’m sort of lost again at this point. What I do know is that I found myself slipping into cringey beta tendencies towards the end of this past relationship I had and even at this point now. I feel as though it was time to come back and stay this time in this community.
Organising yourself into a coherent philosophy is one of the greatest challenges any man ever faces. Don't take it lightly like the fools in the mainstream do and you will eventually find your answers and figure out where you sit. Be aware that beta behaviours are encouraged by society and every part of it, that's why we constantly slip back into it unless you're a sigma.
@TiberiusBravo87 Ooooh, you want to be paid for defending your base values?
@TiberiusBravo87 "I'm not going to die in the first wave" - So in other words you will fight back. You just want it coordinated better.
@slutmagazine When you're smart that will always be the case. By definition. You sure you're that smart?