@slutmagazine Well, not impossible here in India. She was in this relationship since 14. But what do I know, it was really long, like 7 years. And no, she did the proposal thing.
@slutmagazine Well, not impossible here in India. She was in this relationship since 14. But what do I know, it was really long, like 7 years. And no, she did the proposal thing.
@somdevb this is why you're supposed to arranged your daughters marriages. otherwise they get into shit like this where they're a "virgin" but not really a virgin.
also, you proposed to her? she's engaged to you now?
this could be one of those things that will drive you nuts if you don't find out what exactly happened. it's not promising that she said he groped her or whatever. also, have you ever heard of a long term serious relationship that lasted a year without some sex happening? literally it's almost statistically impossible.
@slutmagazine Here's the problem. Before getting into the relationship, she said all sorts of bad things about the exes, which appeared to be made up, how he had molested her, and stuff. I didn't get into the details since she got all emotional, and I could realise it was just her emotions talking. But things changed once we got together. I fucked her after we proposed, and heck she didn't even know how to suck dick properly. I wonder how she could have. She repeatedly has been telling me that she lost her v-card to me, but that's the problem, did she just give them handjobs then? I don't know. She didn't bleed though
@somdevb i know a lot of RP people say that abundance attitude will help you keep her, but it's more context dependent that people want to admit. but keep laying down those rules. did she lose her v card to you?
@slutmagazine honestly, for now, yes, I do wanna secure her. I still can't speak for some time down the line though
@somdevb so this time, it worked out. but eventually you gotta still answer those questions. you want to secure her? or is she just a ho to you?
@slutmagazine I just talked to her rn, She is done with it. She won't travel solo while she's with me. Told her it was just one of my boundaries.
@somdevb y'all being dumb here.
yeah she's going to travel to "cheat" on you
is it really "cheating" on you when you made it explicit you aren't ever going to secure the relationship?
on the other hand she's already fucked a few guys before you already met, right?
so you don't "owe" her anything
so what is she to you? a ho? a woman worth securing?
if she's a ho, then just let her have fun in her vacation. she could come back with a few more tricks she's learned.
if she's worth securing, ask yourself whether a woman who's already fucked a few other guys is worth securing. if your answer, for some reason, is still yes, tell her that the moment she leaves it's over. but no big loss for you since you have other plates and she's not a woman worth securing, right?
so it all depends on the question: is she worth securing or not?
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Also, my LTR had to travel once and knows how to conduct herself.
There were no issues. Trust your gut and your ability to vet your partner.