@slutmagazine yep. I'm not thinking of marriage atleast until my late 20s, early 30s. That gives me almost 8 years of breathing space to test her out...
@somdevb not a fan of her having a couple of boyfriends for years at a time but if she really is a virgin and can be loyal (given her history of already having relationships that failed), and you want a family one day, you might want to consider marrying her. but not for a few years during which you observe her carefully. as you are well aware she might lie and deceive. so you need those few years to test her out.
And I can confirm that. Yes, her parents are severely controlling.
@slutmagazine As she puts it, she was raised by really controlling parents. And she had plans to travel solo since early childhood. To explore the unknown, and learn about people and lands. I'd be really honest here man, I so wanna trust the girl for now, as she has even told me she's willing to give it up if that makes me uncomfortable
@somdevb tough situation
i'm kind of out of ideas here. some people have suggested before that you could do some reverse psychology, like say that you love it when women have stories about getting wild, and that way you can encourage her to share. but i don't know if that can work in your particular situation.
if you really do believe her, just keep her around. but what kind of conservatively raised indian woman even gets the idea of solo travel? that in of itself is weird.
@fawk_face any ideas how to get a woman to confess her premarital sex sins?
@slutmagazine As you see, I have no way to find out. If I were to believe her, it doesn't seem to be.
Those are unheard in India.
and yet she had a 7 year relationship with a boyfriend?
my question is whether she had sex, not a ONS
@slutmagazine And as she says and comes off as, she didn't have any flings or one night stands. Those are unheard in India.
@slutmagazine By proposed, I mean we're exclusive. Not engaged lol. She had 2. One was 7 years, and the other 3 months right after.
@somdevb so she proposed to you and now you're engaged?
also i thought she had several ex boyfriends?
