Potential LTR wants to go on solo trips in her 20s

So, I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months now. I'd like to believe I've maintained my frame quite well and has never given her any reason to see me not as the leader in the relationship. She normally is really accepting of my role as the leader and acts very feminine and submissive around me. I am genuinely happy with how things are now tbh. I've communicated my boundaries pretty well, and no matter how much I get called stubborn, I never give in.

She has been telling me about how she feels really dejected when I tell her about my plans of never getting married, to jokingly mention I might be a 'sugar daddy at 40' (subtly) and stuff. Since we are from a conservative country, she feels a bit insecure about how things would turn out with me.

More recently, she has been telling me about how she plans to not save much in her 20s, invest in herself, and try travelling solo as she always wanted. Me, being RP'd since the last one year, understands that this is a real red flag and immediately showed her the door.

I told her "Well, it's better just do it when you leave, shut the door".

I think she got it at the moment that I'm not gonna give up on my principles and even though she questioned me repeatedly about "WHY" and telling me that "I'll not cheat on you", I have been unmoved and told her that it's strictly against my principles. She does have a history with 2 guys, both long term. But from what I heard, when the last ended, she was on a trip with her friends, where she installed Tinder, and although she says and seems very likely that she didn't fuck anyone coz "she wasn't attracted to anyone there".

I know we just had a talk about all this, but from her Pinterest saves and Insta stories, it's pretty clear that she still hasn't given up on the idea completely. Is it really a time to leave her, or should I wait for the time when it actually happens? I'm pretty sure I won't let her be with me if she were to travel solo in the future.

Potential LTR wants to go on solo trips in her 20s

So, I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months now. I'd like to believe I've maintained my frame quite well and has never given her any reason to see me not as the leader in the relationship. She normally is really accepting of my role as the leader and acts very feminine and submissive around me. I am genuinely happy with how things are now tbh. I've communicated my boundaries pretty well, and no matter how much I get called stubborn, I never give in.

She has been telling me about how she feels really dejected when I tell her about my plans of never getting married, to jokingly mention I might be a 'sugar daddy at 40' (subtly) and stuff. Since we are from a conservative country, she feels a bit insecure about how things would turn out with me.

More recently, she has been telling me about how she plans to not save much in her 20s, invest in herself, and try travelling solo as she always wanted. Me, being RP'd since the last one year, understands that this is a real red flag and immediately showed her the door.

I told her "Well, it's better just do it when you leave, shut the door".

I think she got it at the moment that I'm not gonna give up on my principles and even though she questioned me repeatedly about "WHY" and telling me that "I'll not cheat on you", I have been unmoved and told her that it's strictly against my principles. She does have a history with 2 guys, both long term. But from what I heard, when the last ended, she was on a trip with her friends, where she installed Tinder, and although she says and seems very likely that she didn't fuck anyone coz "she wasn't attracted to anyone there".

I know we just had a talk about all this, but from her Pinterest saves and Insta stories, it's pretty clear that she still hasn't given up on the idea completely. Is it really a time to leave her, or should I wait for the time when it actually happens? I'm pretty sure I won't let her be with me if she were to travel solo in the future.

@somdevb y'all being dumb here.

yeah she's going to travel to "cheat" on you

is it really "cheating" on you when you made it explicit you aren't ever going to secure the relationship?

on the other hand she's already fucked a few guys before you already met, right?

so you don't "owe" her anything

so what is she to you? a ho? a woman worth securing?

if she's a ho, then just let her have fun in her vacation. she could come back with a few more tricks she's learned.

if she's worth securing, ask yourself whether a woman who's already fucked a few other guys is worth securing. if your answer, for some reason, is still yes, tell her that the moment she leaves it's over. but no big loss for you since you have other plates and she's not a woman worth securing, right?

so it all depends on the question: is she worth securing or not?