The following is a short transcript of a brief PM exchange initiated by someone, who would likely prefer to remain @Anonymous.

@Anonymous

I am an elite tier Painter, talented performing poet, lift weights (??? dead lift at ??? lb.) And fight ???. Yet I still can't pick up girls as much as I'd like. U said if i did all that my self esteem would rise and I would get girls but u lied. What do I do?

@me

What's this about?

@Anonymous

Ur comment to the other guy about getting laid. I wanna get laid too.

@me

Which one exactly?

@Anonymous

U specifically mentioned hobbies like art. That comment. It was kinda long.

@me

The guy who wanted to talk to a girl in a sexual way without embarrassing himself?

@Anonymous

www.trp.red/feed/status/108873

@me

So, that was you?

@Anonymous

Nom thats not me. I read 5 sentences and sent u the message. Well?

@me

Like I told the other guy. If you just want to get your rocks off and you've been failing with the sluts in your area. Unappealing as it is to say, grab your wallet, follow @Slutmagazine's advice and take a trip to Vegas or go to a red light district in Europe [or east Asia]. However, if relationships with women are what you're interested in, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, save yourself a search and give this scribed link a gander.

@Anonymous

I don't want to pay for sex with prostitutes. I want to seduce my local sluts for free. How do I do that? I'm willing to have a relationship with them and lead them to God too.

@me

Is there a reason you're asking this on PM and not on an open tribe?

@Anonymous

U really want me to admit I can't get laid in public? Why can't u jist give the advice and keep asking irrelevant questions?

I'm making this exchange public because I'm not a PUA. I don't think wanting to get your rocks off is something to get anxious or nervous about. The guy wants to know how to bang sluts. I open this conversation to you all in the hopes that @Anonymous might see this and follow your replies so he might then gain ideas and insights into how he might achieve his goal of casual fornication. If you've got books you can recommend, YT channels, or what have you, go for it.

@TiberiusBravo87

@arakouzo I chose a competent female OBGYN because she was already a mother and had a high success rate. People tend to confuse a lot of things on this subject, I merely stated that a male doctor has a lot more intuition about diagnosing and working on anything related to male genitalia in the same way that a woman doctor would have that tad bit extra intuition in regards to lady-parts. It's one of many factors to consider.

Also to answer an earlier question, has anyone been in a maternity ward? I think the guy mentioned female-only staff, that's how maternity wards are. The only men are anesthesiologists or male doctors. The rest of the staff are all female in every maternity ward I have been to.

Tib, Let it go. You're a married man with a wife and a kid. At your level in the game of life, some arguments and debates aren't worth getting in to if your household doesn't receive any benefit from engagement. It's none of our damned businesses that you're married with a kid, let alone how you lead and manage your household.

cc: @Slutmagazine @Zavvs

@hyperlink

I don't follow pop culture or television whatsoever,

Don't use pop culture. It's insipid and the best you could do is point out how superficial and stupid it is. It's hard to be funny about something that is so simple and dumb to begin with.

so when I run out of fitness topics to talk about my autism starts to surface.

I don't know what you mean by autism, but I'm willing to bet that you don't actually have it. You probably just have underdeveloped social skills.

I'll take your word to try and introduce more complex subjects.

This is the wrong direction. It's not about complexity for its own sake. Like you're going to bore the hell out of the woman by talking about a car engine or whatever. Talk about ironies in everyday life, or humorously put how unreasonable people are being about whatever.

You read philosophy because it grounds you in reality. None of this transcendentalist bullshit by the way. If you read something that basically tells you that the proper way to govern starts by putting the wise over the stupid, you know how to point out the unreasonableness in democracy. "What do you expect when the average idiot gets to choose their own leader?" you say with a smirk. "It's like getting upset that the kids chose pizza again for dinner three weeks in a row." And laugh. She'll know think you're funny and smart.

Do I just let women talk themselves out?

No. Then you're just a wall. You can interject with something that makes her laugh. By being funny, you show lots of things. Confidence, frame, intelligence. Being funny is attractive because you need these qualities to be funny.

When screening women, I specifically avoid women who dress like that, which invalidates a vast majority of women here. Ironically my screening has brought me lesbians.

It's a numbers game. Eventually you'll find someone who has the sanity to not wear leggings as pants or whatever but is straight. It's like trying to find a Charizard but you get to go through as many pokemon cards as you can for free.

While I do screen my choices, the choices I'm left with often have little in common with me.

That's why you need to read up and have a diversity of knowledge in many areas. Or better yet, studying philosophy will be able to help you understand some basic patterns. If she's into sewing her own clothes, for example, it's unlikely you know much about that. But what you can do is talk about the nature of beauty, which you have a grasp on because you're intelligent and studied philosophy.