4y ago  The Hub

@destraht they would be stupid not to include mind control agents!

4y ago  The Hub
Garage Chief

@hoit Things are mostly as they were, except that she still seems to be probing me for weakness. Not so much shit testing but just trying subtlety to get under my skin. She is now only like 85% convinced that I'm alpha. It could just be me but lately I've been a bit annoyed with her and I don't remember feeling that way before. My life has been a whirlwind of change the last four months though so perhaps that has affected my frame. Or women are just fickle beasts and superherodome is a very fragile position.

Oh though, I walked her to a pharmacy to put her on some vitamin B and D because its Winter, she was sick and I was getting tired of her being a moron. Again, I'm a pussy beta but I wasn't able to tolerate her in that state and there was a simple cheap fix to the situation (and she bought them). It seems like the right thing to do, so I'll let you know if she still keeps trying to fuck with my head or if some clean acts of decency and kindess can find their way through the fierce female psyche.

I think that its fine, but my working theory is that you either just let the situations be to not be hassled or you fix your women up and then be prepared for them treating you worse if you aren't fucking them. There is a point though where I'm not interested in taking their shit and if they can't put themselves back to being nice then I have to cut them out. I suspect that AWALT but that the more damaged ones particularly have a difficult time accepting simple kindness. So they scare away men who know that it doesn't have to be that rough and only the assholes stick around (for acquaintances, friendship or hooking up).

Its been an interesting case study in a somewhat novel situation for me.

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4y ago  The Hub

@destraht definitely. It's unendingly difficult to get into our thick heads that women don't communicate the way men do. The same sentence spoken to a man can have the same, exact opposite, or totally unrelated meaning when spoken to a woman.

Woman innately know to treat mean and women different, and easily find rationalizations to exempt themselves as they demand equal treatment. To have equal relationships requires give and take, that's why you offered a thank you gift to a friend. But a female friend must be treated as a separate class from a male friend, because women have little experience with equality, they always feel above or below someone. If they're above their role is to demand of their underlings, if they're below their role is to supplicate.

It's hard enough to find a balanced friendship with men, so conflict-of-interest friendships with women must be approached with much diligence and little attachment.

I'll be interested to know how it continues, if you're able to reestablish the old frame or if she becomes more entitled with you.

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4y ago  The Hub
Garage Chief

@hoit Well in general I feel that the Muslims need to have the tar gently beat out of them on a regular basis like how the Russians do it. It seems that those guys really act like monkeys around women when they get up in the numbers. So you can have everything nice, all of this infrastructure and women and then these monkeys want to tear it down. I say just kick their fucking asses and then keep dialing up the volume as needed. If they won't get the message then blast the speakers until they crack.

4y ago  The Hub
Garage Chief

@hoit Now that I think about it, one reason that she was likely to have needed to flex and game is that I brought her a tiny jar of pure shea butter from Colombia (from Africa). For someone comprehending how cool that oil is its a very nice gift because its almost impossible to find. So if you do something nice for a woman then it can diminish you in their eyes and so they need to sort it out. I just wanted to thanks for all of her help. So I guess if you are going to be nice then you also need to be strong enough to tank the repercussions until they can be put back in line.

4y ago  The Hub

@destraht dumb joke about muslim exceptionalism

4y ago  The Hub
Garage Chief

@hoit I don't quite understand that sentence.

4y ago  The Hub
Garage Chief

@hoit She might have friendzoned me, and that is quite ok with me. She was sick (after being in Germany eeeek) so that was perhaps the reason that she was agitating. She has a lot of guy friends. She isn't an energy vampire though, actually she has helped me out a lot. Her contacts were invaluable for finishing the garage. Other than being a minor pest while sick she has been a good and useful friend, though I'm not stupid enough to lean on her for my survival. At a certain point if I'm involved with people over a long period of time then I need to be able to tell them basic truths like "that is retarded, I don't do it personally". I'll never shy away from that because without this the relationship becomes intolerable.

4y ago  The Hub

@destraht what about rogue sharia law enforcers on beach pics?

4y ago  The Hub

@destraht From this interaction Id assume she thought she had friendzoned you. Youve jumped out of the box she had you in. Or she might believe all you said was ego-invested rationalizations of a beta.

The higher a person's class, the less tolerance for negativity because "why are you wasting my time, call a man and write a check."

As men, it's harder to catch subtler negativity, because expressing contempt for something is a great way to disconnect from something that is both attractive but not god for us. But the less dysfunctional the woman, the less negativity required to break her idealization of you.

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