how can I measure my attractiveness? my face is average, I'm 6 feet and if I become jacked + use a stylish haircut I think I could be at least decent. The thing holding me back is my fucking dick
You're a presumably young adult, six foot tall male, with a full head of hair, a reasonable grasp of English, who I assume is of obvious European ethnicity and/or acculturation. You don't need to look like some male cover model or some roided up body builder. If you're occupied with gainful employment or studies, have no debts, healthy with no sexually transmittable diseases, and don't have an arse for a face, then you're already as far ahead in the mating game as your default genetic expression could ever possibly get you.
That said, it reads more like the thing holding yourself back is mainly you. Namely your inferiority complex. Your feelings of inadequacy due to a lack of self confidence and life experience are holding you back. Women, dating, and opportunities to fornicate or find relationships will come, but you won't overcome those feelings of inadequacy holding you back until you focus on laying a solid foundation for yourself from which you can move forward in your life with confidence.
Give up tv, movies, radio, and periodicals. Go to the gym, get in shape, and maintain the healthiest physical condition that you can. Develop your communication skills. Read, write, talk to and listen to people so you can develop the ability to interact and communicate with people effectively. Seek out mental and physical challenges to help you build up your confidence. Learn a martial art; boxing, judo, MMA, or whatever you think will best enable you to physically defend yourself. Learn to draw, paint, and play an instrument.
When time passes, you should feel more confident in yourself do to your achievements. When you're ready to start dating, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, save yourself a search and give this scribed link a gander.Read More
@slutmagazine I'm not saying I want to LTR a fucking slut like those, I just want to learn HOW to react, how to HANDLE these situations where they ghost me, laugh at me, try to bully me, talk trash on my social circle making me have a reputation for 'ugly short dick' and similar stuff...
@JoeyBlanks I understand you, I feel the same but for the the rejections I've faced, all they laughed about me, for all the bullying, for all the shit I've had to live. I think that's the BEST FUCKING MOTIVATION to beat the shit out of em