Get Laid More By Being Reserved
Your thoughts manifest themselves in the words that you say. This post is for the non aggressive readers.
Have you ever heard of the term 'putting your foot in your moth?' It means that you say something that doesn't sit well with the other party involved. Putting your foot in your mouth wouldn't happen if you censored your words. Personally I 'stick my foot in my mouth' all the time because giving a shit about the perception of others isn't something that is of use to me. I say what I want when I want. Although I am having a ton of success in my life due to this, I am able to recognize the benefits of choosing my words wisely in certain situations. None of which involve women.
Humans normally raise their offspring in either a single or co parent home. Although the offspring can be either a male or female, I will be focusing on how this upbringing affects females. The parent passes what they know on to the young. The things passed include: morals, values, likes, dislikes, biases, etc. What this means is that the young female will grow up with the likes and dislikes of her parents. Mom or Dad have a thing against people that believe in astrology? Better believe that little Jasmine will hate them as well due to the fact that most women are herd animals. So what happens when you approach her and start talking about your love of astrology? She gets cold and starts to ice you out. Maybe she'll clue you in as to what happened or maybe she won't. The 'why' doesn't matter though because as a man you should just chalk it up as an uninterested female. So how do you counteract their upbringing while maintaining your values and landing in her pants? Keep your opinions, views, beliefs to yourself while deflecting her questions to alleviate suspicion. The rest of this post will be a map to help you learn how to do so.
How To
Positive Energy - positive energy keeps the good times flowing and her mind nice and calm
- Laugh Often
- Be Attentive
- Steer clear of potential negative topics such as politics, astrology, religion, etc
- Know yourself enough to know what things about you are negative and deflect any questions about them
Deflecting Questions - deflecting questions can aid you in keeping certain things private and the vibe of the conversation healthy
- Turn inquiries into jokes - Cocky + Funny is king here
- Act like you didn't hear the question
- Agree and Amplify to extremes - Q. What do you think of trump? A. Trump? Who's that?
- Say you don't want to talk about it - always good to change the vibe sometime
Get her talking about herself - women usually have a pointless story to tell all you have to do is listen
- Ask Leading Questions - scan her and ask her about something that seems interesting to her
- Listen Intently - Most people speak and wait to be heard. Not many are good listeners.
- Compile - Based off the information that you've gathered, ask more penetrating questions to get her talking about subjects that deeply resonate with her
Screen - while keeping the vibe light and happy, make sure you are checking to see if she's dtf. Otherwise you're just a guy that she's dumping her crap on.
These methods here are enough to deflect any suspicion from yourself due to you feeding into her bullshit. Taking this route is pointless if you don't screen hard and fast.
Stay Icy
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