@Witcher117

Any thoughts?

My observation: Joe Manganiello's in his forties, no kids, he's been married to an older Colombian woman for five years who previously divorced from the father of her one and only child. Despite his Italian ancestry he displays fairly good aesthetics in the genetic lottery, but he's failed to produce any offspring and his foray into marriage has been to a woman who divorced the father of her child.

Conclusion: This indicates he's either a blue pill male or, given the well documented prevalence of homosexuality among entertainers, a closeted homosexual. Latin-American females and Italian descent males are well known to be at least nominally Catholic. Sophia Vergara is documented as having some eggs on ice. Which forces me to present you the question, how do you, a good looking successful man, marry a reproductively viable good looking female and not produce children, repeatedly, over the last five years especially under the circumstances of the covid-19 lockdown?

@Elvis is right. Own who you are now as you work toward becoming the man you envision you could be. Train and condition your mind, body, and soul into the vessel you want it to be. You play DND, good on you. You've got something to occupy your mind outside of work and women. Men need good hobbies and this is one I've observed keeps a mans imagination fertile and pliant. However, being able to converse with women, means being able to converse in general. Look into Improv, toast masters, or other things that get you talking with more people.

Consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". The guy writes a weekly advice column and runs a podcast from his site. While his media is a bit pricey, it's well worth the investment. However, you should be able to find free copies through piracy torrent sites. I've found it's a good foundation reference book for a guy working to develop himself to be successful in dating.

@goodmansaysfuckyou "Nah, man. I'll take you at your word you're able to bring the thunder, until you have to lay down the 'boom'."