@neo_ Thanks a lot! The amplify seems always to work well. Although, he is a kind of a friend and without even thinking about the girl I want to put certain boundaries down from man to man I feel like. He seems to take the piss more and more and I feel that I have to do something about it. or should I just let this slip?
@Eurm If it's a situation where you know dead to rights he hid the cutting board to fuck with that specific meal prep, and he knows that you know, an amused mastery approach would be to call him out on it, saying in the presence of all 3 of you, "If you hope to win the girls you can't act like one by playing petty games. Girls want men, not petty little boys who hide the cutting board."
@Eurm I don’t know him so I’m making a flash judgement, but I would guess he’s insecure/jealous about you bringing chicks over . It also depends on the context of your relationship- is he a close friend? A drinking buddy? Roommate/ acquaintance? This should change your response.
Two strategies to try:
Agree to what he says & amplify it to ridiculous proportion. Ex “Dude Eurm, you have such a tiny cock” “Yeah man I’m actually a tranny, I chopped off my dick when I was 15”
Or just completely ignore what he says and don’t respond. Make it seem like he’s dissing a brick wall, he’ll just look stupid. And if he says more shit and you keep ignoring it, he looks stupider - why would this guy keep obsessing over saying something to you?
Whatever you do don’t go on the defensive and start disagreeing. This makes you look like you actually care about + value his opinion.
Try those tactics out. They should help. These tactics also work well with women.
Read MoreAlright gentleman I have a burning question to ask.
I'm pretty new to the red pill but I don't have anything to complain regarding attraction and female attention. I do would love your insight about how to treat your 'friends' / 'brothers' in certain situations.
Since I'm dating this new girl and she comes over he always seems to make fun of me or play me down. He's a housemate. I know this is an easy way to have a sense of being an alpha male. I'm trying to stay grounded in these situations...
For example; I wanted to cook something and the cutting board disappeared. He says out loud: It always happens to him. He clears up but then forgets's where the stuff is.
The last time when he did this in front of me and the girl, I kinda used the method of over-exaggerating (About how unbelievably awesome he is) and it seemed to work. If he will do it again I chat with him in person next time and tell him straight up. But I'm wondering what to do in a situation when the girl you're dating is there?
I like him as a person but something seems off.. I also know that we as a man have this tendency to downplay man (in a fun kind of way), even if it's your friend.
Now, this doesn't seem to painfully but the intention behind this makes me wonder.. It seems to happen more and more where he wants to bring me off guard. I sense it quickly but can't seem to respond fast enough.
I do have a fear of somebody running off with my girl because this happened to my dad. I'm working on this core belief through inner child work!
I'm wondering: How would you react? What would you do in these kinds of situations? Or should I just calm the f*k down?
Thanks in advance!
Read MoreAlright gentleman I have a burning question to ask.
I'm pretty new to the red pill but I don't have anything to complain regarding attraction and female attention. I do would love your insight about how to treat your 'friends' / 'brothers' in certain situations.
Since I'm dating this new girl and she comes over he always seems to make fun of me or play me down. He's a housemate. I know this is an easy way to have a sense of being an alpha male. I'm trying to stay grounded in these situations...
For example; I wanted to cook something and the cutting board disappeared. He says out loud: It always happens to him. He clears up but then forgets's where the stuff is.
The last time when he did this in front of me and the girl, I kinda used the method of over-exaggerating (About how unbelievably awesome he is) and it seemed to work. If he will do it again I chat with him in person next time and tell him straight up. But I'm wondering what to do in a situation when the girl you're dating is there?
I like him as a person but something seems off.. I also know that we as a man have this tendency to downplay man (in a fun kind of way), even if it's your friend.
Now, this doesn't seem to painfully but the intention behind this makes me wonder.. It seems to happen more and more where he wants to bring me off guard. I sense it quickly but can't seem to respond fast enough.
I do have a fear of somebody running off with my girl because this happened to my dad. I'm working on this core belief through inner child work!
I'm wondering: How would you react? What would you do in these kinds of situations? Or should I just calm the f*k down?
Thanks in advance!
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