@Eurm

I still feel she is brainwashed and doesn't believe what I say because she believes that feminism is “all human rights” or only based on woman's rights in poor countries.

Standard feminist rhetoric.... "it's all about equality" followed by trying to promote female rights at the expense of men. Feminists want to level the playing field only where women do less well than men (regardless of whose fault that is). They change the subject fast when you talk about male equality in areas where we don't do as well as women.

She's WILLINGLY brainwashed. She believes in feminism because it seems to benefit HER. (This is true of most people's political beliefs).

Could you help me with this topic and what to say?

Agree with her wholeheartedly, and tell her it's her turn to buy dinner. Her turn to sign up for the draft. Her turn to ask you out on dates. Then talk about what you're going to do to help disadvantaged men in your community.

Basically agree with her "equality" lie wholeheartedly, embrace it, and make her live it. "No honey, you're a feminist, you get to choose where to go for dinner".

Here's my question though: why the fuck are you dating a feminist?

Would love you help guys!

I had a discussion with the my GF about feminism. She keeps saying that it is for all humans and the rights as en example for a women in Africa who don't have rights.

Where I me saying that they shouldn't call it feminism. And I tell her that the woman who believes in feminism and live in the us/Europe don't think that way and it's from a ego centric place.

I also told her that we shouldn't call it feminism because there is not really a mans right while 2/3 of sucide is man and the prisons are full of man.

I still feel she is brainwashed and doesn't believe what I say because she believes that feminism is “all human rights” or only based on woman's rights in poor countries.

Boys, I want to have solid arguments and am not sure what else to say.

Could you help me with this topic and what to say?

Thank you!

@Eurm

I decided to stay at home tonight and let my GF meet her friends alone.

Now, last minute she tells me that her ex comes and even wants to drive in the same car. I told her that Its not cool driving in the same car and she can go by herself alone.

Although I still feel strange about this whole scenario. This is the first time she will see her ex after a long time and I'm not there.

What should I do?

Asking for advice

+ Btw she told me honestly she didn't know about her ex and it was last minute

That she's telling you that this is going on up front is good. She doesn't want to imperil the relationship with you in the event you find out about this unexpected turn of events later. Unless she's otherwise keeping in touch with this guy, it doesn't strike me as something to be concerned about. However, it does make me think that you need some hobbies for days like these to keep your idle mind busy.