@Steperbystep It is hard but you can get through with it and this will make you mental strong. There will always be could Have, would Have, and should Have been. You probably fantasizing about all the good things that can happen and ignore the reality of what good and bad can happen if you continue down this path. You have to ask yourself is she really worth more to you than yourself? And if the roles were switched do you think she would have the same thoughts of trying to build/fix this relationship?

@hustlerbear81 man its really hard to come to terms with it, Deep down inside I cared for her but never fully showed her. Part of me still wants to try to fix things but I know that would be temporary. Thanks for your advice man.

@Steperbystep If that day does happen, just accept the apology and leave on a positive note because you don’t want her to jeopardize your life or job if you piss her off.

@hustlerbear81 I think you are right. She did it to feel wanted and to make me jealous. I let her be at work and talk only when necessary. Something I know noticed is that she regrets it and my intuition is telling me she might come back or apologize. I don’t know what to do when that happens.

@Steperbystep She may have done it for attention/ wanted to feel needed by someone, or make you jealous, but like i said before she is not worth your time. Do not obsess over her because you will drive yourself crazy and fell unsure about yourself.

@hustlerbear81 hey can you please elaborate more on whats happening? As I am not sure why she did that. I can give more details if you want

@hustlerbear81 that actually feels good to hear that, Thank You

@Steperbystep Just be pleasant and leave her be, she is not worth your time. Do not follow/chase after her, just worry about yourself and focus on succeeding on what you want out of life.

Canceled plan with a girl I work with and I think things might go south from here

Been talking with a girl I work with, she gave me a BJ, but didn’t do much after. She really wanted to hook up with me and we made plans to. However things didn’t as planned and it was canceled. Next day at she comes with a big hickey. To be honest, I am kinda angry with myself that we didnt hook up and it was partially my fault but what. Why a big noticeably hickey. How should I proceed?

Also I know about we shouldn’t hook up with people at work but this isn’t my career and neither is hers.