@itiswr1tten that's true, but on the other hand if the person receiving advice is mature it shouldn't be a problem. Me asking here is just to chat like I would with friends over a beer, I'll listen but in the end take my own decision

@3x7r3m157 30-35

@3x7r3m157 what you say makes sense. I have a deeper problem, that is kind of independent of her: I'm not sure which scenario I want for me in a couple of years. Bachelor spinning plates or Family Dad.

i have a new job at consulting company as data scientist. I've been put in charge of a project (which had already started before my arrival) and next month we're meeting with the client - the whole management board including CEO (medium size company with international sales). Any advice?? All this is new to me. The project is in early phases amd though it looks promising, we are still in heavy-development phase

@cantkillfaith Well once you stop thinking of it as cheating, and no longer worried about getting caught then the answer is obvious.

If all you are worried about is FOMO then the problem is you're letting your emotions lead you, probably not the best idea

@Dorsun just talk about whatever you're into. learn to not change your words / topics so to conform to whatevere idea you have of your speaking partner (THEY are coming in your reality). Also accept that most of the times, if you don't really know someone, the beginjing is gonna feel a littlw awkard. it takes some time to warm up, don't force it

@itiswr1tten no, more like I just wanna your thoughts

@cantkillfaith make sure to never promise her exclusivity. Something along the lines of "I can't imagine myself being with one woman forever" would do it.

@Rian_stone sex is best I ever had but it still gets repetitive after 1.5 years.

@CainPrice true, problem is more with maintaining frame, i.e. not let anything slipnor feeling guilty. I'm not sure I can stomach it