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Girl is on.
Option A: Try to pull to the bar bathroom for some filthy bend-over action, but risk her bail & never to be seen again.
Option B: Take it easy, set her up for a second date, then with better logistics - since the bulk of work is already done.
I just went with the second choice, what do you think? I've heard some guys pull to the bathroom on the first date. But I think statistically that's out of the comfort zone for most girls, and you'd burn a lot of leads that way.
Anyway, input / experiences appreciated.
What is the best way to ask a girl out while maintaining plausible deniability so she doesnt get scared off in a school environment?
Situation - was an upper term ambassador for students entering our professional program. Met many of the new students during the first night at dinner. Made a bunch of new friends.
Today was walking home to school and having a nice conversation with a lower term co-ed. She was giving positive body language (legs crossed while standing), and messaged me a few hours later asking some bullshit questions about scheduling. I answered it an joked around and left the door open with a "lemme know if you need anything else".
The upper termers have an exam coming up monday - we usually party after our exam. I was thinking of inviting the girl out to party with us and make my move then. But - at the same time, theres a possibility she could not plan for it.
My question is - should i tell her - "wanna come drinking with us on monday after our exam"? Or should i wait to the day of as if the thought just came to me?Read More
While I can hold frame and apply concepts well upon meeting someone, the facade gradually fades and exposes my BP tendencies, causing plates to break within a month or two.
TRP concepts are internalized and embodied through many experiences and learning from them. While I try to reach this standard, how can I better hold frame with plates in the long term?
Ltr having problems with family
Both me and my current ltr are coming from strict, golden cage like families. She just called me crying about how she feels and all that, and I stayed quiet the whole time, letting her emotional vomit flow until she was finished.
How should I deal with these kinds of situations?
Ideally, you would ignore shit like that if it was just another girl but I feel this requires a more delicate aproach although not in the sense of being a white knight. On one hand I'd like to help her but on the other I think it's best to stay out of the mess.
How to deal with this the best possible way?
I posted this on the sub aswell
Going full incel?
High school, week ago i was sitting waiting for class when suddenly across the room ( room ??) on the other bench 1 girl with her friend starts yelling my friends name, i tease my friend "youre getting girls man" he goes there because theyre both persistant and he comes back and says "they asked for your name" i said tell them my ig or fb, he later told them my fb and the decent looking one added me on facebook i texted her some bullshit laughs here and there and i told her to speak to me irl, she said "what" i said yeah, she never did and when i tryed to approach her a few times she ran away in the girls bathroom with her friend, after a few days i just smile at her and she smiles back and talks to my friend about me, today her friend tells me to fuck off and comes to me and says to not bother her ever again or she will report me. (i also found out the girl is a slut so i guess thats what i can attract)
I have nothing to say except fuck life i hate .... whatever, anything... im 17 and have never been able to land a date with a girl, only 2 girls have shown me interest and later to find out they have boyfriends. i feel like all of them are trolling me, i cant even past a shit test because they don't let me try. i was rated 5.5 on r/truerateme (they are very harsh in ratings so its more like a 7/7.5 however thats only in selfies, in tagged photos and pics from afar i look like a completely different person so i dont even know if i look good.Read More