@INNASKILLZ2K20 normal people take RP seriously, not literally.
Unserious people take it literally, not seriously.
The point isn't for an X=Y omnipotence, that is impossible, people are too complex to be narrowed down this way.
But, embrace that they are heuristics, rules of thumb and you'll err on the side of positive outcomes more often than not
The reason Rollo hesitated is because he's used to gotcha questions, as are we all... Assume your wife leaves you during hard times and you'll stop using her as a soft landing when tough times hit, because chicks don't care for that responsibility. If his goal is to keep the marriage together during hard times the worst thing he could do was look for relationship equity ..
And having said that, if his wife trusts he will land on his feet she will stick around for potential in the future .. you seem a smart guy and I'm surprised anyone has to explain this .. and that all of this is a "good enough" heuristic and not a crystal ball.Read More