@matamoros1917

Told girl I've been fucking for 3 months (and who seemed to be wanting an LTR) to come over later, she said ok. She didn't come over, said she thought I was supposed to come over and didn't even say sorry, which was out of character of her. She'd also been trying to make me jealous I went to her place, told her straight up she was acting like a child trying to start shit for attention and that from the outside it looked like she was trying to push me away She apologized, told me it wasn't intentional, made me dinner and waited for me in bed with no panties hugging on her plush toys. Fucked her like an animal that night, she was all lovey dovey next morning Few days later she starts getting distant and ends up breaking up with me arguing that it made her really uncomfortable when I accused her of playing games

Wtf was that? Did I fuck up by checking her verbally?

“Liars will never be troubled by their inconsistency. It’s the least of their concerns.“

• — Theodore "Voxday" Beale, Source*

When your plate failed to show up as agreed, and didn't call in advance to let you know of their change in plans, you should've ignored it entirely. If you took any follow-up action, it should've been to focus on other plates in your inventory until this one resumed following through on what she'd say she'd do with/for you.

The bad news is that she now knows manipulating you will provoke a response and she will continue to manipulate you in the future if you continue. The good news is, you now know that she's not simply a solipsist, but a full blown narcissist.

Right now you've got two choices, continue dating her knowing that she will manipulate you further, or quietly bail on her. Regardless of what move you make, you now cannot let on that you suspect that she's a narcissist as she both knows where you live and that her knowing you suspect she's a narcissist will provoke her to use more dangerous methods of manipulation against you in an effort to harm, or kill you, so others never find out.

Good luck.

Told girl I've been fucking for 3 months (and who seemed to be wanting an LTR) to come over later, she said ok. She didn't come over, said she thought I was supposed to come over and didn't even say sorry, which was out of character of her. She'd also been trying to make me jealous I went to her place, told her straight up she was acting like a child trying to start shit for attention and that from the outside it looked like she was trying to push me away She apologized, told me it wasn't intentional, made me dinner and waited for me in bed with no panties hugging on her plush toys. Fucked her like an animal that night, she was all lovey dovey next morning Few days later she starts getting distant and ends up breaking up with me arguing that it made her really uncomfortable when I accused her of playing games

Wtf was that? Did I fuck up by checking her verbally?

Told girl I've been fucking for 3 months (and who seemed to be wanting an LTR) to come over later, she said ok. She didn't come over, said she thought I was supposed to come over and didn't even say sorry, which was out of character of her. She'd also been trying to make me jealous I went to her place, told her straight up she was acting like a child trying to start shit for attention and that from the outside it looked like she was trying to push me away She apologized, told me it wasn't intentional, made me dinner and waited for me in bed with no panties hugging on her plush toys. Fucked her like an animal that night, she was all lovey dovey next morning Few days later she starts getting distant and ends up breaking up with me arguing that it made her really uncomfortable when I accused her of playing games

Wtf was that? Did I fuck up by checking her verbally?

@matamoros1917

My FWB has been trying to get on my nerves lately.

When we started fucking she had a beta ass long distance boyfriend who suggested opening relationship just to keep her. One month in, she started admitting feelings and hinting at breaking up with her boyfriend. I liked her so I went with it.

There were a few weeks of mindgames which involved me making sure that she thought that the branch she was about to jump to was solid enough: for example, I responded to one of her jealousy tests by making clear that she could fucked other guys, but that would probably make her want to withdraw some privileges she had earned (like being taken out and basically treated as someone that I like to spend time with for other than fucking); I also told her some "I want you but I don't need you" shit, like I'd be down to date her seriously but had no problem and even saw some advantages in staying FWBs.

So she broke up with the guy about a week ago. Since then, she's been more in her masculine. More shit tests, more jealousy tests, more snide comments that even came close to insults a couple of times. She's even said she wants to see me angry.

I've been fucking her rough for months. Facefucking, slapping her face, biting, leaving bruises, choking. I pull her hair or her ear hard enough to cause pain when she brats. I don't know what else she needs or what does she pretend with this. One of my theories is she resents me for "making her break up with her boyfriend" or something. Also she's got some abuse related trauma that makes her unable to cum. It takes me long to cum too but it finally started happening fairly often some weeks ago, and she may resent me for that too.

Any takes?

My FWB has been trying to get on my nerves lately.

When we started fucking she had a beta ass long distance boyfriend who suggested opening relationship just to keep her. One month in, she started admitting feelings and hinting at breaking up with her boyfriend. I liked her so I went with it.

There were a few weeks of mindgames which involved me making sure that she thought that the branch she was about to jump to was solid enough: for example, I responded to one of her jealousy tests by making clear that she could fucked other guys, but that would probably make her want to withdraw some privileges she had earned (like being taken out and basically treated as someone that I like to spend time with for other than fucking); I also told her some "I want you but I don't need you" shit, like I'd be down to date her seriously but had no problem and even saw some advantages in staying FWBs.

So she broke up with the guy about a week ago. Since then, she's been more in her masculine. More shit tests, more jealousy tests, more snide comments that even came close to insults a couple of times. She's even said she wants to see me angry.

I've been fucking her rough for months. Facefucking, slapping her face, biting, leaving bruises, choking. I pull her hair or her ear hard enough to cause pain when she brats. I don't know what else she needs or what does she pretend with this. One of my theories is she resents me for "making her break up with her boyfriend" or something. Also she's got some abuse related trauma that makes her unable to cum. It takes me long to cum too but it finally started happening fairly often some weeks ago, and she may resent me for that too.

Any takes?

My FWB has been trying to get on my nerves lately.

When we started fucking she had a beta ass long distance boyfriend who suggested opening relationship just to keep her. One month in, she started admitting feelings and hinting at breaking up with her boyfriend. I liked her so I went with it.

There were a few weeks of mindgames which involved me making sure that she thought that the branch she was about to jump to was solid enough: for example, I responded to one of her jealousy tests by making clear that she could fucked other guys, but that would probably make her want to withdraw some privileges she had earned (like being taken out and basically treated as someone that I like to spend time with for other than fucking); I also told her some "I want you but I don't need you" shit, like I'd be down to date her seriously but had no problem and even saw some advantages in staying FWBs.

So she broke up with the guy about a week ago. Since then, she's been more in her masculine. More shit tests, more jealousy tests, more snide comments that even came close to insults a couple of times. She's even said she wants to see me angry.

I've been fucking her rough for months. Facefucking, slapping her face, biting, leaving bruises, choking. I pull her hair or her ear hard enough to cause pain when she brats. I don't know what else she needs or what does she pretend with this. One of my theories is she resents me for "making her break up with her boyfriend" or something. Also she's got some abuse related trauma that makes her unable to cum. It takes me long to cum too but it finally started happening fairly often some weeks ago, and she may resent me for that too.

Any takes?