The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
@hehehaha I mean, @financehardo420 might be right, but you didn't give much information to go off of.
Do you tease her at all? Try to bring her out of her shell? Break the touch barrier with a little kino? Does she reciprocate? What does her body language tell you?
I mean, none of us are there to see any of this, so you're going to have to figure some things out on your own.
My advice is the same as it almost always is when someone is trying to figure out if a woman wants him: attempt to escalate and see if she's into it. If she responds positively, continue escalating. Anything other than enthusiastic consent is best taken as "no" and moving on to greener pastures.
9h ago TheRedPill
@financehardo420 I thought so too and stopped talking to her 3 weeks ago. She's been restless. She keeps "appearing" around me wearing stylish clothes and keeps staring at me. So Im very confused now. On one hand this is such a hassle. On the other hand shes hot...
16h ago TheRedPill
@hehehaha 2 word answers is generally an indication of she’s not that into you
23h ago TheRedPill
This woman likes me. I like her. I know this much. She doesn't communicate and expects me to read her mind. Very shy and reserved. I tried to speak to her but she freezes, looks down and gives 2 word answers. What do I do?
And no man *[who actually knows his worth] is going to make the level of sacrifice that a marriage requires for anyone who is just a friend.
FTFY
too many men don't understand that they're actually the prize
@Problematic_Browser this kind of reminds me of one of @Archwinger's old posts: Women are as shitty as you let them be
1d ago TheRedPill
@Problematic_Browser Mate... I would say on the contrary I've seen many many many many men who are in that situation. Sexless marriages. As common as it gets is it not? Sad reality of the western world.
@Freespiri If you're not fucking, you're just friends.
And no man is going to make the level of sacrifice that a marriage requires for anyone who is just a friend.
1d ago TheRedPill
@Problematic_Browser I remember hearing in RP when I was younger (And not just RP but in more mainstream convo) the idea that a healthy romantic relationship must include a healthy amount of sex. Quality over quantity sure, but both the man and the woman should want it and both should initiate it.
As I reach 37, I'm now absolutely sure of this. Both should experience the shared pleasure, both should find it connects them, helps alleviate stress, helps to remind each other of what matters. Its a stress reliever that is shared. I do think Men need it more than women and good women realise this and accomodate for it, just as the man may not care for having a tidy household but keeps it tidy for her needs.