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My unicorn fantasy
Published 03/06/16 by Redasshole [2 Comments]

OK so just a few ideas. I don't have time to polish the post right now. I didn't even articulated the ideas correctly. I may do it when I find the time.

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I often think about unicorns. I indulge into this fantasy of finding a girl who believes in traditional values and treat her man well. She would wait for me when I come home from an exhausting day at work and greet me with a smile and a hug before preparing my favorite drink. She would ask how my day went and actually listen. Then she would serve dinner and we would make small talk.

I’ve always been a dreamer, and thinking about this makes me feel good. However, with this dream comes the knowledge that the probability of finding such a girl is so small that I will never encounter such a person. The difference between me and a blue pill guy in this regard is that I indulge into this fantasy because it makes me feel good, just as imagining a huge chocolate ice cream falling from heaven. I know very well it will never happen while blue pill guys actually believe and expect their ONE fantasy to happen. They are so desperate and eager to find the ONE that they will delude themselves and alter their perception to force the events around us to accommodate their fantasy. They want it to happen so badly that they will do almost anything to believe it can happen, it happens or it happened. I don’t want it to happen. I only want to think about it. It makes me feel happy. It may be stupid and weak, but I enjoy thinking about that. The aim of this fantasy is not to make something happen in my life, it’s only a fantasy.

And the girl in the fantasy is so awesome. She is kind, nice, polite, and well-behaved. She read the surrendered wife, total feminity and other books of that kind. I have such a precise image of her in my mind that it’s not possible I’ll ever find a girl like her in real life. And even if I do, I will cover my ass. I would never marry her. I may allow her to move in with me but I would never co-sign anything. I would never rely on her income for anything. Basically making sure I can walk away in 30 sec. Why? Not out of fear. Only because I value my freedom more than I could ever value a girl, even the girl from my fantasy.

And let's be honest, I would become bored of her pretty quickly.

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Comment by Redasshole on 03/06/16 09:41pm

Yeah, it's always little by little.

First, they do something that can seem innocent and they do worse and worse until they reach your limit. Then, they will gradually move your limit a little bit further, validate you from doing so by being extra nice and then resume being a bitch again. They always make it seem like you moving your limit is a good idea or something reasonable. It's almost an art form. That's why holding frame is so important.

An example of that could be the following:

"yeah he licked my ears but I was druuunk!"

2 weeks later

"well he kissed me but it wasn't my fault"

a week later

"yeah I gave him a blowjob"

etc.

That's when she reach your limit that all your blue pill conditioning plays a huge role because she can use shaming tactics, play the victim or threaten to play with your scarcity mentality by threatening to leave...It's so easy for a beta to agree to push a little bit his limit so that things gets better. There is thys myth that one can appease a woman. It's not possible to appease such a creature. All you can do is establish boundaries and hold frame....just like you do when you deal with children!

And that's how you end up a divorce-raped cuckhold with a child that isn't yours.

(Really laughed at the donkey part)

Comment by RedBigMan on 03/06/16 07:46pm

They are so desperate and eager to find the ONE that they will delude themselves and alter their perception to force the events around us to accommodate their fantasy.

Women often use the boiled frog approach to manipulating a man's behavior. She'll do something that will be a red flag. The red pill man will not put up with that shit and remember it for the next time she does something (One red flag doesn't necessarily disqualify a woman from a LTR relationship) but he has a firm limit say 3 red flags before all she'll ever be is a plate. The blue pill man ignores the red flag and so she raises another red flag and another and another until the entire yard is filled with red flags and the blue pill man is walking down the aisle thinking he's the luckiest man alive... She'll put out her 'duty sex' for a few times after getting married maybe try to trap him with a baby for vaginamony and in 2-5 years divorce him, take half his shit and use his kids as a weapon against him and he'll wonder how his precious unicorn turned out to be a common donkey with a stick taped to it's forehead.


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