@destraht Most people can’t conceive of anything beyond material deception and think it’s all a sensation carnival. The spectacle has become so overwhelming it immediately redirects them back to itself as soon as one might try to move away. Pretty sure humanity has trapped itself. Only way free is a rejection of “science”.
@TiberiusBravo87 Spent the last five years continuing to develop my physique, reading difficult books to become “enlightened” (what a fucking joke), becoming more skilled in my blue collar trade, and doing what I could to become a top-prospect man in rural Burgerland.
Finding trp was great and saved me from a lot of trouble. Still inept at socialization after it all.
@adam-l Hard to say that’s what frustrating me, that I feel or act within the beta framework. My immediate personality just comes off as boring. Never developed a good love language.
@CruiseControl I find there to be a great benefit to having ruffled so many feathers and tested so many boundaries in my younger years. I had to learn not be beat up and how to combat multiple hecklers at once. There is an art to talking shit back to a guy but not using the trigger words that will give him an excuse to fight. Some guys just like the sparring match. Women like this. Of course in some scenes I've been aggressively ousted by a group of dudes in a form of pre-emptive mate guarding. It just comes with the territory.
My personal theory about why aging men can still be considered attractive even though they have obviously diminished from their more physically powerful younger years is that if an older masculine man is still cocky and not dead, then he most certainly survived a whole bunch of encounters. Survival qualities are attractive. Younger men are untested with no guarantee of the qualities necessary for survival into their later years. I'm not saying that young guys are unattractive, far from it. It's just that it explains a lot about why women would go for men who look like how we begin to look when they could instead get a young fresh man. We also tend to become nastier and more vicious as we age - when it counts.
The downside is that I turn off women who are fully dedicated to beta hunting. What I end up getting (settling for/into) are top-notch confident women who believe that they can turn me into their personal reformed beta, or they just want alpha sex.
Probably, yeah. Mostly just frustrated at my inability to be suave.
You need a lot of practice being different than typical. Unfortunately it seems that practice is very difficult to get these days. Now more than ever creativity will be rewarded. The guys who are playing the mask shaming game or toeing the line aren't the bad boys. Today you might be able to be a bad boy criminal type by simply being "unsafe" while breathing. Of course so many women are so mind fucked that they are now literally afraid to breath the air. So there is a shortage of women who are capable of being a basic mammal, or reptile even. What to say of a complex multicelled organism that stops engaging in it's most basic life activities? Like cockroaches scurrying in the light.
So you have your work cut out for you.
Read More@CruiseControl so that's your answer right there.
If looking for a wife, i.e. assuming a Beta role, it's natural to approach it as a Beta. It is useful, too, because Bate is what you're gonna end up in marriage anyway, so you want to make sure it will work out that way.
@adam-l Probably, yeah. Mostly just frustrated at my inability to be suave.
@Fawk_Face Shouldn’t have dropped that term. More so there’s a lack of knowing-what-to-say. Case in point is pic attached and just feeling generally brain dead in running game. Takes an excruciating amount of thought to not come across as apathetic, boring. Feels unnatural communicating these days and can’t get over it.
@CruiseControl are you subconsciously looking for a wife or something?
Best ways to get back into the mindset of carefree flirting?
Used to not experience this sort of problem and was able to act on a whim. But at point it becomes mentally draining, being so self-conscious of the process and the usual remarks that my mind clocks out and loses the charm.
“Why so serious?”. Fuck if I know.