2y ago  The Hub

@Eurm Dread had an impact. Hence the super-attentive BJ

I'd have told her if she goes there with other lads without me then we aren't a couple anymore. Concerts are great places to shag anonymously and she probably damned well knows this. If she pretends otherwise she's openly lying to and disrespecting you.

I would let her do whatever she wanted to do. I set the rules, she does whatever she likes... the consequences happen.

You're not a champ, she's manipulating you. It's a massive red flag for a woman to try to use sex to get what she wants.

There's little more to say here... you made a bad LTR call. How many plates have you spun anyway?

2y ago  The Hub

@Aging-Chad What would have been preventable? Telling her? Or not dating her in the first place?

I think you’re right. I hold my frame but will sense if she’s fooling with me.

How do you check in with chicks where there might be a chance?

It’s difficult because I don’t want to not allow her to go but I wonder what she would think if I go with to “girlfriends” go and dance…

So I want to explain this to her in the best way possible

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2y ago  The Hub

@NeoSpartan Thanks for the insight! Yes I don’t even know what it is but some half Portuguese hip hop. I didn’t even ask haha.

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2y ago  The Hub

Sorry for the bad grammar. My phone was on Dutch T9

2y ago  The Hub

What's up warriors,

Yesterday the girl I'm dating told me she is going in 2 weeks with 2 of her “male-friends” to a hip hip concert where they already bought tickets for before the covid and she knew me.

She told me yesterday and I felt when we said it that she knows how I think about it. I've been telling her in the past that I don't believe that woman can have best male friends. There is always somebody who wants something.

I played it casual tough and kinda reacted short... After that I did give her a little less attention while sitting on the couch.

10 minutes later she gave me a fantastic BJ if her life was depending on it.

I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

What would you have done in my position?

Would you let her go to the concert?

Would you tell her?

Or just keep the frame and knowing that I'm anyways the champ who gets her?

The last option is where I'm leaning towards too but I do want to make clear to her that I don't really like it that she goes with 2 man to a concert. Even if they are “just friends”

Would love to hear your insight!

Thank you

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2y ago  The Hub

@Eurm

Hey Guys,

The girl I'm dating is awesome and she ticks of all the boxes I like to see in a woman.

The only

1 that's missing and that's that she keeps saying is that:

Women are not paid equally, still are not present in equal numbers in business or politics, and globally women's education, health and the violence against them is worse than that of men...

What do you guys think about this?

I know Rollo talked about this but can anybody give me a clear answer on if this is actually true or not? And what to say to these feminist movements?

I would love to hear your insight and if I should tell her about this

cc: @Aging-Chad

2y ago  The Hub

@Aging-Chad Thanks a lot dude! It's so hard to ignore this though while we all get bombarded with this on 'woman's day' why isn't there a men's day?

What is btw AA?

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2y ago  The Hub

Hey Guys,

The girl I'm dating is awesome and she ticks of all the boxes I like to see in a woman.

The only

1 that's missing and that's that she keeps saying is that:

Women are not paid equally, still are not present in equal numbers in business or politics, and globally women's education, health and the violence against them is worse than that of men...

What do you guys think about this?

I know Rollo talked about this but can anybody give me a clear answer on if this is actually true or not? And what to say to these feminist movements?

I would love to hear your insight and if I should tell her about this

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3y ago  TheRedPill

@BigBoiBahmani That's clear! Thanks for the response. Would you say to take him aside and tell him that he should stop being a 'wannabe - alpha'? Or what would you do in this situation? Because I do mind about my own internal state and he seems to trigger me!

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3y ago  The Hub

Thanks for the response guys! I do understand that he isn't even a 'threat' and he might be a little bitch. But what do you guys think of putting boundaries down from man to man? I've been doing this in the past to let them stop. He does trigger something in me..

It just seems like he is changing into a wannabe 'alpha' when she's around.

I dont like to have friends who dont respect me. Although I know it's something that we man tend to do out of jealousy/envy.

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