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@destraht Yeah I agree, I don't like going out that much though and LA is mostly a very disgusting place. I did try what you are describing, flew/drove around with a backpack, but I didn't find anywhere particularly compelling, despite doing my research. Do you have any suggestions?
In any case, for now I'm planning to stay where I am. Where my family and close friends are, even if LA is a pretty shit place on the whole.
@Kloi @AFTSOV No, it shouldn't be, unless you've gotten the thing down pat and aren't a very social person. The gender ratios are bad, the medium of communication is pretty lacking (non-verbal cues aren't really a thing with text, but I mitigate that with a bunch of emojis) and you don't have the psychological advantage of a commanding presence or physical dominance, so it's much harder to impress them.
Also yes, if you aren't at least a 7 you probably aren't going to get any matches, the uglier girls on there are kinda dumb (they develop this inflated sense of worth based on the amount of shotgun likes they get and then jump on whoever the hottest guy was who actually talked to them) and try to reach far higher than they should. They end up just getting pumped and dumped or at best plated by a dude who could do a lot better but wants a least a bit of something quickly. The attractive girls who are looking for an LTR are often pretty damn extreme with their vetting process, but you can get a girl who is similar in SMV to you if you make a good enough profile and approach them in the right way. The skanks will just fuck the hottest guy who talks to em and isn't completely weird.
Anyway AFTSOV, if you just want to bang sluts, you'd be better off hitting up the bars and clubs unless you are really lazy and/or don't care about lowering your standards. That said, you might get lucky anyways with OLD, but the odds are against you if you are just looking for quality lays.
I use it because I'm looking for a good LTR and don't really like being social, I only really go to parties and such when I'm socially obligated to. You can also get a fairly decent glimpse of their personality and can vet many different options at once and at your leisure. They often also link their social media accounts so even more vetting info at the push of a button, although flawed obviously, because that's just a glimpse of what parts of themselves they want to show publicly. A lot of more introverted girls use OLD, which is my type, and my own personality preference. I have been extroverted before and did the party thing all the time in hs and first couple college years, but I'm well over that now. I just wanna hang out with a gf and some very close friends 95% of the time.Read More
@R3v4mp3d I was suggesting you might have been doing it unconsciously. Also hahaha, you sound a bit like Patrick Bateman dude XD
It sounds like you do mostly consciously what most people do mostly unconsciously, re: the assessment and judging of others. Maybe try and adjust that laser focus lizard mind to calibrate inward a slight bit and be more aware of your own presentation. Dunno if that guy was lying or w/e about the girls but... if he wasn't you might want to adjust your focus to yourself a bit.