I would like to direct you to a r/TRP post from a few weeks ago written by a guy from Middle East. TL/DR - most pronounced hypergamy, anal is on the table from the start, sewing back hymens to appear virgin. RP galore.
From what I've heard, read and seen it's not dissimilar for the devout Jews or Christians.
married by the time they’re 20 like our great grandparents
One of the reason we're in this mess today is the failure of the "system" they built. It failed b/c it was built on complete lack of understanding of sexual strategies and SMP coupled with the fact that it had a hard requirement of the world not changing even an inch.
@adam-l pre-feminism people were very religious and patriotic, and female primacy wasn’t an issue for men as women depended on men for resources. Now hardly anyone is religious, many people hate their country and female primacy is out of control.
If everyone was devoutly (Christian/ Muslim/ Hindu/ Jewish etc) and married by the time they’re 20 like our great grandparents did, we wouldn’t be in this mess. Plus it was very rare for people to get divorced back then. Only female primacy is an issue here.
@Eztreoux why can’t you be around her? Just because you used to like her (or still do?)
I’ve been in this exact situation before TRP so I get where you’re coming from. But I just moved on and kept seeing my friends even if she was there. I still will be friendly with her but I think she knows I don’t want a friendship, I’ll only speak to her if we’re sat next to each other for example but won’t seek her out at a party.
Dm me if you want though I don’t know how active I’ll be on here.
@Anon23 read The Rational Male, watch Rich Cooper on YouTube. Those were the two most useful things for me. You won’t get anywhere unless you know the basics.
I’m in college too and went from having one gf prior uni and no sex AT ALL in my first year to banging 9’s and 10’s in my third year. I was a loner too, I’m still very introverted but my social skills have improved drastically since starting uni.
Don’t listen to any of the doompill/ Blackpill content because it just points out problems not solutions. Rich Cooper does a podcast with all the top red pill influencers which is very useful listening because you get all their different perspectives. He also has a channel called Entrepreneurs in Cars I think it’s on that page.
Honestly forums are hit and miss because no one has credentials. You have no clue the results people are getting or how they live their lives. I’d stick to guys that walked the walk. There’s a bunch on YouTube but I mainly watch Rich because he is a multi millionaire owning multiple companies who doesn’t make much from YouTube, so you know he’s doing it to help guys like us not just make money.
Good luck man, it’s a long road but a crucial one to living a good life.
Read More@Reesescups bro you got it wrong from the get go. This is going to be long and harsh but I hope you get value from it.
Don’t meet up with girls as friends you are attracted to. Most red pilled guys don’t have female friends but trying to be her friend before dating/ sex always fails. You have to treat her like a potential partner from the start not beginning as a friend.
Secondly you should have gone for the kiss. What have you got to lose? As I’ve led on to this is much easier if you don’t have female friends. Women can be acquaintances but that’s as far as it should go. You shouldn’t really be meeting up with women privately if it isn’t a date.
Thirdly don’t mess with other men’s girls unless you want to get in a fight. I’ve done it but only when the guy lives far away and I’ll never see him. You don’t want to be looking over your shoulder when you go outside.
She said you’re trying to trick her probably because you come off creepy. As a man you need to know what you want, if you want sex you make moves. If you don’t want sex you wouldn’t meet her in this way. You’re too scared to go for what you want and women find that creepy. The half in half out behaviour is the worst.
Last point bro it sounds like you still have a oneitis mindset. If you didn’t you would just go “hmm that was weird” with this whole situation and go about your life. Men that have options don’t get stuck on one woman, they let women come and go out of their life as they please.
Hope some of that helps, you really should watch Rich Cooper and read The Rational Male. I think you’re missing the basics. Complete empathy for you though, most of the people in this community have been in your position.
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