Yeah it's fucked up.

What do you suggest?

I'm already limiting my communication.

It's one of those things that I knew about her ex before. They don't keep in touch much beyond birthday wishes (again I have no way of knowing)

All the signs point to what you say.

Drop off in communication.

She spent her morning in bed. Apparently period cramps but she was online the whole time. She also used to message me more when she felt sore etc.

She's away to her hometown where he lives.

My comment on "It's not great that it will be two weeks since we've had sex" was met by "Aww you saw me the other day and I can see you a weekday after the day I'm back"

I think you're right

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Liqurdsnake

1y ago The Hub

@redhawkes

That's my concern and I think it's logical.

She shared a dream with me.

She keeps in touch as friends with her first bf. He's friends with her parents and family.

She sent him a text yesterday to say about her parent in hospital.

She did say her dream was "traumatic" and that she wished she had "normal dreams".

In her dream she was making out with her first bf and he said "We shouldn't tell anyone" and then she agreed "Yeah sure we won't".

Then various other unrelated things.

She then said "There are some things I'd rather not see in dreams or think about".

It's honestly getting to a point where I'm annoyed.

I played it cool "Haha yeah that's weird."

I'm seriously considering what I want now.

She's been really sweet to me.

Like making gifts. Food. Sex has been amazing.

Now I'm sat at two weeks no sex. Sexually frustrated. I know she's just off her period and she gets horny afterwards.

I don't really know what to do

1y ago The Hub

@TwoInchesOfShaft Yeah you have valid points.

It gets more interesting though.

She shared a dream with me.

She keeps in touch as friends with her first bf. He's friends with her parents and family.

She sent him a text yesterday to say about her parent in hospital.

She did say her dream was "traumatic" and that she wished she had "normal dreams".

In her dream she was making out with her first bf and he said "We shouldn't tell anyone" and then she agreed "Yeah sure we won't".

Then various other unrelated things.

She then said "There are some things I'd rather not see in dreams or think about".

It's honestly getting to a point where I'm annoyed.

I played it cool "Haha yeah that's weird."

I'm seriously considering what I want now.

She's been really sweet to me.

Like making gifts. Food. Sex has been amazing.

Now I'm sat at two weeks no sex. Sexually frustrated. I know she's just off her period and she gets horny afterwards.

I don't really know what to do

1y ago The Hub

@Liqurdsnake Spin plates. Then you won't be so worried about one chick.

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TwoInchesOfShaft

@Liqurdsnake Chill. If her parent dies there’s a lot of grief. She will need friends. She will need family. A week to fly to Italy from the US means she has 5 days there, 2 with jet leg. She won’t cheat on you with 99% certainty.

Don’t do anything retarded and make a big fuzz now. If she cheats she will tell you eventually or you’ll find out, women can’t keep secrets. But she won’t. Especially if someone dies. If no one dies, the also not.

TRP can make one paranoid and act erratic. Don’t be that way. Chill.

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Liqurdsnake

1y ago The Hub

Follow up post.

Italian gf. Navigated that chat and thought "great, now all I have to do is fuck her good next week and continue what I'm doing".

Then the universe threw me a curve ball.

Her parent is really sick. Like potentially dying sick. She messaged right when I was about to go to bed.

So abruptly, she booked tickets to fly home to Italy. Which is have done the same in her situation.

Only it then went from "I'm flying to see my sick parent" to "I'm flying to see my sick parent and I'm also gonna meet up with friends."

She's away for a week. Which means by the time she gets back, we won't have had sex for two weeks.

She cancelled on me this week due to "being too sick to go out" despite her having been out with a friend a couple days prior.

One of her friends she is meeting is a dude she worked with. Like I say she is going to be sleeping on couches at family and friends places.

All of this right after that shit seems pretty high risk. I'm preparing myself for the worst.

Any advice on how to handle this situation?

1y ago The Hub

@Lionsmane8

Yeah I have built too much comfort.

I posted an update. Our meet up went well and ended with her sending me nudes and being submissive via text.

I'm anticipating shit tests galore as I've hit her with a change in frame. I'm taking steps to improve my messaging game.

Teasing her when she says I love you. Making her write things. One word to three words. Sticking my phone on do not disturb and mostly allowing time to pass before I reply (the time it took her plus extra minutes) to create space.

I'm also devouring content on TRP and have been given great advice.

I'm sure whatever comes from both our situations will be for the best.

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Liqurdsnake

1y ago The Hub

@Lone_Ranger

I posted an update and your advice, along with everyone else's, really helped.

I appreciate the link.

I'm not going to get complacent anymore.

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Liqurdsnake

1y ago The Hub

@TwoInchesOfShaft

I'll check that out. I think I recovered well. She :

Has sext me and been submissive. Told me her pussy, ass, tits and lips are all mine.

She has unprompted text me and called me "daddy".

She has initiated kinky scenarios again via text.

I'll follow the guide and work on things. Seems positive though but I won't get comfortable

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TwoInchesOfShaft

1y ago The Hub

@Liqurdsnake Your relationship looks to still be in the phase where you can mold it. She is very attracted to you. Use this to build the basis for a great LTR. Use the bitch management guide by human sock puppet. Mold your girl into a good girlfriend.

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