@IHateNames Be careful what you do in your situation. If you’ve been slacking and she lost respect for you and took over the relationSHIP, then setting a strong boundary (going nuclear on a shit test) will blow up in your face. Why would she respect a boundary from a man that does not lead the ship?

Get your shit together, start being the alpha. As usual typoMagashivs advice was clean. Start passing the shit tests consistently. Then you have the power to put her in her place.

I’d advice you to check out bluepillprofessor’s website and his videos. He was on MRP and has advice for handling these situations. Also, check out “the 4 horsemen” article on TRP.

I see a retard approach coming in your situation which will not give you the results you want but the exact opposite. So do your diligent reading and theory now.

@Tennisball1- did you ever even bother to read the side bar or the top posts on TRP?

You are creating a shit show of a relationship. You are what Rollo calls “children with dynamite”.

She thinks you have a hot date means she thinks you are that attractive. Simultaneously she probably worries about you leaving her as she wants you to commit. Then you are telling her she’s boring. It’s completely obvious that her ego is hurt and she has to say something to make you feel like she could leave.

Why do you tell her she’s boring? Is it so she can change? What do you do when she does? Is it to neg her? If yes, that’s a stupid one if it’s spoken seriously. Do you want to tell her it’s not gonna be serious? Yes? Why then use boring as a reason? Do you want her to be more fun or have you already decided that she’s not good enough for more than a short term plate? Is she absolutely boring or relative to some chick looking at you? Why do you attribute every move a woman makes as malicious? Think about these questions, I don’t want an answer.

The definition of woman’s feelz is that she acts UNCONCIOUSLY. You are interpreting her behavior like she’s a man. These sentences just come out of them, they don’t even know why. In this case, she tells you “look, I got other options, you can’t do what you want with me”. If that’s true or not is another thing entirely.

Do you even know what you want? Because that is what TRP can give you: what you want. But if you can’t figure it out what that is, then you’ll run in circles without enjoying anything about it.

I have some empathy for you but you are making it hard for me to want to help you procreate.