@Apollo At least you then know what she was doing

@Apollo That movie is a classic, man. I don’t think it is your age, I do think you should get away from the 50th iteration of some marvel superhero and watch this instead

Slightly older than me, but very attractive co-worker did the basic instinct move on me today during lunch hour. I was the only one who could see, she looked at me, did it, then turned away and continued the conversation. Rather perplexing, but pleasant surprise. Had to hold my laugh in as it was so calculated.

@geismaikati This seems like a comfort test to me which means she thinks she’s no attractive enough for you. Tell her she shouldn’t worry, it’s no big deal. Or tell her, it has nothing to do with her, if you also think it’s a comfort test. If I’m correct and it’s a comfort test, not being dismissive and cold is the solution. You could tell her what @mentorpheus wrote, I like that one.

It really is not a big deal. A friend of mine who gets a lot of chicks can’t cum the first 2-3 times with a girl always. Has sex with them, no problem, but can’t cum. That’s just how it is sometimes.

@MentORPHEUS @DanielLarson exactly what I would have said. Just to emphasize mentorpheus’ point. I did what he said once, shrugged it off, didn’t explain myself. Said “happens to the best of us” and the girl told me weeks later (without me asking) that she couldn’t believe how calm I handled it and that she knew she found someone mentally strong.

Remember, women like to see you stay calm in the face of social pressure. It’s one of the ultimate DHVs. Don’t explain yourself. She’s testing you if she’s offended.

The best mindset for dates with women in my opinion is “nothing is ever a big deal”. I think I got it from RSD years ago. If you act like that, really, nothing is a big deal.

@Tennisball1- go to the forums, click on the sidebar and read it through. Even before that, go to the forums search for top posts and read the top 10-20 at least. If the videos are still on YouTube you could also check out some old RSD stuff, this will give you a very quick introduction to PUA.

@Tennisball1- Again, I can only emphasize to get the theory down. You would not wonder if she really likes you or not if you’d know what the clear signs are.

@Apollo many guys also think the built look comes from a big chest and arms, but the really strong, intimidating look actually comes mostly from a full and wide back. A trained back also means serious strength usually.

@Dad-issues69 I give you advice from experience. If you won’t do it soon, she’ll likely drop you. Try to fuck her next time. Even if she turns you down, it will make her attracted. Make your intentions clear. Get her thinking about it when you whisper in her ear and touch her over her panties. And when you finally bang her, do it carefully because it could hurt very much. If she can take it, sure, give it to her. Make sure that it’s a good experience for her. If you are experienced, lead her, let it show in your actions.

I’m sure she’s partly with you because she knows you’re experienced and she wants you to fuck her.