Eurm

5 months ago  The Public Square

Sorry for the bad grammar. My phone was on Dutch T9

Eurm

5 months ago  The Public Square

What's up warriors,

Yesterday the girl I'm dating told me she is going in 2 weeks with 2 of her “male-friends” to a hip hip concert where they already bought tickets for before the covid and she knew me.

She told me yesterday and I felt when we said it that she knows how I think about it. I've been telling her in the past that I don't believe that woman can have best male friends. There is always somebody who wants something.

I played it casual tough and kinda reacted short... After that I did give her a little less attention while sitting on the couch.

10 minutes later she gave me a fantastic BJ if her life was depending on it.

I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

What would you have done in my position?

Would you let her go to the concert?

Would you tell her?

Or just keep the frame and knowing that I'm anyways the champ who gets her?

The last option is where I'm leaning towards too but I do want to make clear to her that I don't really like it that she goes with 2 man to a concert. Even if they are “just friends”

Would love to hear your insight!

Thank you

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carnold03

5 months ago  The Public Square

@Eurm

Hey Guys,

The girl I'm dating is awesome and she ticks of all the boxes I like to see in a woman.

The only

1 that's missing and that's that she keeps saying is that:

Women are not paid equally, still are not present in equal numbers in business or politics, and globally women's education, health and the violence against them is worse than that of men...

What do you guys think about this?

I know Rollo talked about this but can anybody give me a clear answer on if this is actually true or not? And what to say to these feminist movements?

I would love to hear your insight and if I should tell her about this

cc: @Aging-Chad

Eurm

5 months ago  The Public Square

@Aging-Chad Thanks a lot dude! It's so hard to ignore this though while we all get bombarded with this on 'woman's day' why isn't there a men's day?

What is btw AA?

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Eurm

5 months ago  The Public Square

Hey Guys,

The girl I'm dating is awesome and she ticks of all the boxes I like to see in a woman.

The only

1 that's missing and that's that she keeps saying is that:

Women are not paid equally, still are not present in equal numbers in business or politics, and globally women's education, health and the violence against them is worse than that of men...

What do you guys think about this?

I know Rollo talked about this but can anybody give me a clear answer on if this is actually true or not? And what to say to these feminist movements?

I would love to hear your insight and if I should tell her about this

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Eurm

about a year ago  TheRedPill

@BigBoiBahmani That's clear! Thanks for the response. Would you say to take him aside and tell him that he should stop being a 'wannabe - alpha'? Or what would you do in this situation? Because I do mind about my own internal state and he seems to trigger me!

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Eurm

about a year ago  The Public Square

Thanks for the response guys! I do understand that he isn't even a 'threat' and he might be a little bitch. But what do you guys think of putting boundaries down from man to man? I've been doing this in the past to let them stop. He does trigger something in me..

It just seems like he is changing into a wannabe 'alpha' when she's around.

I dont like to have friends who dont respect me. Although I know it's something that we man tend to do out of jealousy/envy.

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Eurm

about a year ago  The Public Square

@neo_ Thanks a lot! The amplify seems always to work well. Although, he is a kind of a friend and without even thinking about the girl I want to put certain boundaries down from man to man I feel like. He seems to take the piss more and more and I feel that I have to do something about it. or should I just let this slip?

MentORPHEUS

about a year ago  The Public Square

@Eurm If it's a situation where you know dead to rights he hid the cutting board to fuck with that specific meal prep, and he knows that you know, an amused mastery approach would be to call him out on it, saying in the presence of all 3 of you, "If you hope to win the girls you can't act like one by playing petty games. Girls want men, not petty little boys who hide the cutting board."

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neo_

about a year ago  The Public Square

@Eurm I don’t know him so I’m making a flash judgement, but I would guess he’s insecure/jealous about you bringing chicks over . It also depends on the context of your relationship- is he a close friend? A drinking buddy? Roommate/ acquaintance? This should change your response.

Two strategies to try:

Agree to what he says & amplify it to ridiculous proportion. Ex “Dude Eurm, you have such a tiny cock” “Yeah man I’m actually a tranny, I chopped off my dick when I was 15”

Or just completely ignore what he says and don’t respond. Make it seem like he’s dissing a brick wall, he’ll just look stupid. And if he says more shit and you keep ignoring it, he looks stupider - why would this guy keep obsessing over saying something to you?

Whatever you do don’t go on the defensive and start disagreeing. This makes you look like you actually care about + value his opinion.

Try those tactics out. They should help. These tactics also work well with women.

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