You need to stop worrying about this girl and start working on yourself. It seems that you are more invested into her, then she is of you.
You are putting too much negative and stress on yourself to know what your future holds for your career, love life, and health. You need to think positive, you are going to stop worrying about this girl and work on yourself, put your time into exercise and finishing college. You were not born in this world to appease everyone. Don't worry about dating/picking up, but work on yourself before you dive into the dating live. You need to know more about yourself and what you can do, then on what hooking up or dating.
@XtrmlyFlustered79 If the kid turns out to be yours, you need to accept the responsibility, running from this does not solve the problem. But don't look at it that it is the end of your life, it happens and you need to take the good with the bad. Don't take out whatever frustration you have about the kid's mother out on the kid, it's just a kid that has no understanding on how life works and does not me the kid is an exact replica of the mother, the kid has its own mind and personality. And put yourself in the kid spot, wouldn't you want some to love and care as much as do, and teach the kid that you didn't learn until a-lot later in life.
Now if it turns out that the kid is not yours, this would be a good lesson to learn from by being careful with whom you have sex with.
@jokermaybe Your whole life is going to be one big test, so you are going to hold your frame.
Life is not going well then do something to make it better
Your girl not respecting well then find a girl who will
Your Job sucks then work hard on getting a better job
Your out of shape well then find a way to get your body into shape
These are examples will be a part of your life
Do not let your emotions get in the way because it will not solve anything but cause problems
You don’t owe anything to this women or to anyone but yourself, you don’t have a kid with her, you are not living with her, so you can move on to something better.
@Strif3 Here are some links that i recommend of books or websites in calisthenics
I can totally agree with you on this, this is why i believe in the charter schools, because it gives kids more opportunity to build a better education. The teacher unions also support the democrat parties because they get funding from them.
Indeed. The spread of charter schools, which are still taxpayer funded, and thus controlled by a government which hates the populace, helps Americans continue to maintain some semblance of the delusion that it's more important for women to leave the house and make money Instead of being chaste, debt free virgins, forming strong families with good men, and raising their own children. Got to keep the lie of the American dream alive and well, before the sheeple get any more aware of the nightmare reality it actually is.
@carnold03 I can totally agree with you on this, this is why i believe in the charter schools, because it gives kids more opportunity to build a better education. The teacher unions also support the democrat parties because they get funding from them.
@Steperbystep It is hard but you can get through with it and this will make you mental strong. There will always be could Have, would Have, and should Have been. You probably fantasizing about all the good things that can happen and ignore the reality of what good and bad can happen if you continue down this path. You have to ask yourself is she really worth more to you than yourself? And if the roles were switched do you think she would have the same thoughts of trying to build/fix this relationship?