You as a man have to be dominant.

Not so less as to be the orbiter.

Not so less that you are the smiling monkey on the dance floor. You're not her friend.

Not so less that you have to seek permission.

Not so less that you treat her like an equal. She is beneath you.

Not so less that you put yourself up for show, stare into her eyes and wait for her. That's bold, but not enough.

You take. You make the move. You don't ask, you do. You slam your ego on to the world and ask the world to adjust. To correct itself for you. To let go of what it doesn't want you to have. And to not want anything in return.

In terms of all SMVs, there are just two which can be delivered instantly – looks and dominance. She will immediately know if you're handsome, and instantly know if you're dominant. Because she will sense that she's beneath you, a lesser creature and only you can fulfill her. Beauty attracts her, but dominance turns her on.

But why would you want to do that? Cause you're masculine – you destroy to recreate. You seek chaos to bring order. You heat up your core with pressure, and burst into a star-fire, devouring everything around you. That is your nature – you live to devour and recycle. With respect to women, you live to make them greater and more fulfilled.

But dominance is also the ability to have a coherent worldview. The more dominant you are, the clearer you are in what you want. And that's a good way to work on your dominance – to become more clearer on what you really want. Not what your parents told you should, or what was fashionable in your peer group. What you as a living breathing person of flesh want in the deepest of your being. And you keep reminding yourself of that. Remind yourself more after you fail. That generates anger and energy; You need that to propel yourself to action. So if you're angry, you're on the right spot. Harness it, and you'll be on the right path as well.

The whole reason you're not dominant is because you're egalitarian. You believe in the sameness of the sexes. You believe in androgyny and you believe that men and women have no right to their own natures. And you believe that fulfillment of desires is a sin and people don't have a right to be happy.

You deserve your own unhappiness, for you create it. And the way to escape is to accept responsibility and grow true to your nature. Their are no exits in this game, but why would you want one? It would be just like death – plain and boring.

Dance to the tune of chaos and stretch your body. And when the moment arrives, bury your fangs in her nape and taste blood. You've no idea how badly she wants it.

[This is reproduced from my blogspot blog post. The Full post is right here, and the link is just for completeness; You needn't navigate away to that.]

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