One of the big talking points of anti-male movements is the idea of “toxic masculinity”. Essentially, this concept is an argument against gender-roles. Specifically, masculine gender roles. The idea goes that society fosters this outdated, useless, ineffective, and impossible standard of manhood – something kind of like Rambo or John Wayne – which damages both men and women. It damages...

We often see questions that go something like, “My girlfriend did [insert shitty behavior]. How do I get her to stop?” The misogynistic blue pill answer is, of course, to communicate with her. Tell her how you feel about her shitty behavior and why, and ask her to stop. Use your feelings to try to guilt and manipulate and coerce her into changing what she wants to do for your sake. Blue pill...

Our daily lives are characterized by decision-making. We make decisions ranging from simple to complex involving our daily encounters. The same applies to college students. They decide on issues affecting both their academic and social lives. Their decisions can be influenced by self, the management, colleagues or parents. The perception of learners influences the decisions made. Most of them...

Rollo has just posted an excerpt of his excellent The TalkHere's my strategy on dealing with this sort of thing.Strategies for dealing with female demands for exclusivity (which she is absolutely not entitled to):Head it off before it starts. They often start subtle by implying you are a player (chuckle as if it's true even if it's not). Or subtle expectations of current exclusivity (chuckle as if...

I saw a documentary on TV – "Diary of a Porn Star."It basically follows a pron model around. A girl called Denis K. She basically did porn at age 18 and then tried to make a come back 5 years latter but failed except to do one scene for some kink porn.And the reason for that failure?She had hit the wall.She basically admits it – she used to get lots of jobs but now she is desperate for a job. Of...

Short Term IndulgencesFace it. At this very moment, if you're honest with yourself, you'd love to shove a piece of cake into your mouth, stop working those extra hours, and say fuck it, you deserve a break. Cozy up in front of your TV, grab a six pack of that IPA you've had your eye on for a while, and put your favorite sitcom on.And yet one of several things may happen:You indulge, you feel relaxed,...

Australia has just accepted 12,000 syrian refuges as part of "doing our part".Cleverly the Government has focused on "persecuted minorities", which is another word for Christian Syrians (as opposed to muslims), this is done to get greater support from the general population who are sick of all the Muslims (as Mark Latham says - we do have a muslim problem in Western Suburbs of Sydney, no matter what...

You would think this would be fucking obvious. But we have this: http://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/queensland/expartner-of-former-bikie-not-expected-to-survive-gold-coast-road-rage-bashing-20150909-gjiiqv.htmlNow apparently this a 'domestic violence' issue.Well its not - its a idiot women who decided to screw a 'bad' boy - and being in "a volatile, on and off relationship."Of course I am wrong for saying...

Long time lurker over on the sub-reddit. I've been wanting to start a blog to track my self improvement goals. This seems like the place. 27, entry level IT worker, fat but with an athletic background. LTR'd up but still working on extroversion and success. I won't prattle on too much about my back story here. I'm sure it will come up when relevant. I'll mostly keep the blog in the format of goals...

Procrastination and lying to yourself are traits of us all. Don't get me with that I'm - perfect - stoic - bullshit. Even if you are that's stupid. Life is too damn short and if you're actually lucky enough that you can decide about your future you need to GET REAL. Male hamster is so strong it can pin down female hamster and cum in his ass. For example, we are way too abstract today, on context of...