@Vermillion-Rx yeah me too.....
when im sober, im a total sigma.
When i drink im more alpha/beta
life is boring without a direct enemy to attack. They have engineered it this way
@Vermillion-Rx same thing happens to me if i get sober for a few days
@fumbor the ranking system can be a burden too.
I file as, wouldn't bang. Doable. Hot.
Im a very happy man with a girl with big eyes. I tell small boobed girls they have nice tits. Honestly, be a lil nicer to these hoes, they're still people (i think?).
Might make you feel special bringing up a low self esteem cute girl out of her shell. Starts off scared to take phone calls and now she enjoys giving head because you gave her permission and guidance. Always makes me feel better
@Typo-MAGAshiv I went through a bit of a hate phase with women after a few lossed girls i was close to getting but got nervous at close. Next girl i fucked gave me clap, Nice!
I was pretty much would not bang mode for like 10 months but still had a really good friend who was still in the game and brought me out of it over a few sessions of beer.
This guy is lacking that close friend who doesn't give a fuck about your lies, hes just gunna tell you the truth in a humorous way, a few beers helps soften hard truths as well.
Looking back my "would not bang" attitude stemmed from frustration with not being able to make progress with girls in the way i wanted. Id get escalation anxiety and not ask for the number, fear of rejection, etc.
Now im a bit nicer, i give them a chance to be cute or flirty, i go for the number the second i feel it, go for the kiss the second i feel it.
I no longer take rejection as a permanent its over. The girl i have now, who is very sexy, rejected me over a 2 weekish span. I think it took me 3 meetings to get her number, she worked there, so i knew when to bug her. She was always smiley with sex in her eyes, i knew she couldn't say no for too much longer.
Now this girl cant get enough of me, she quite younger. My new problem is i cant even get her to sit through a movie without her needing "attention".
In conclusion!
He doesn't know how to quickly and effeciently win with women. He gets frustrated, gets his lil feelers hurt, jerks off and watches porn, Says he never really wanted to play..... Heavy rationalizing
Been there done that.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv This guy was saying a few weeks ago that he jerks it and watches porn to just "get rid of" his sexual urges.
A guess he finds porn stars, very intellectual and good conversationalists, that he connects with on a spiritual, almost soul mate like level.
Im not saying they couldn't be but you most likely dont get that feeling when your watching her bouncing on two dicks and taking a moneyshot, that some other guy is filming..
But hey.... what do i know