@EurasianChad I agree it's more about me getting pissed off at myself when I make a mistake and trying to fix it than the actual girl. I get pissed off about other mistakes that have nothing to do with women.

@AndrewTatesPancreas Things are getting weird I sent her a 14 second voice message inviting her to a museum on the 18th and she replied with a licking lips emoji. WTF am I supposed to take from that? If it was a restaurant invite then maybe that makes sense. Is she crazy or what?

@AndrewTatesPancreas No mate lol I meant I get the phone number from about 1 in 7 or but I've only done it on a very small scale so far so may have just got lucky. Need to do it more for statistically significant results. However I live in a crappy town without many approach opportunities

@EurasianChad Fair point I suppose I think of this girl as practise maybe that's why I didn't message her that soon straight away yes I am asking lots of questions about how to respond to her but that's information I can apply to any girl in the future not just her. If I can eliminate silly mistakes and bad responses that will help me with every girl.

But yes there is a oneitis aspect to it as I havn't recently devoted time to getting girls numbers and dating as I have been busy with other things. A side effect of this is oneitis when I do approach and get a number.

@MentORPHEUS I think if I call her she will be working or something and not answer so to avoid phone ping pong I will message her.

@MentORPHEUS Thanks for your reply yes I missed it because I accidentally left my phone on silent. It annoyed me but that's just how it goes. I suppose it's ok to miss a call as you don't want to be available 24/7 she called quite late at night too. I will send her a brief voice message and see what happens

@EurasianChad What do you mean not get my reference? What reference didn't she get? Some people are saying my reply was lame but you're saying that she is lame for not having a sense of humour so which one is it?

@Noonenoname

take her to the museum? I did that to a girl once and she loved it but on the other hand it could come across as creepy

Wait, are you taking her to the Museum of Tolerance?

@Noonenoname I think you broke the connection by leaving her on read for a week for no real reason. You're marketing yourself, and when a prospect came into your shop ready to buy you ignored them for a week. Your last Hail Mary may have been when she called (but you missed it.)

Maybe shoot another text at this point, unless your cold calling skills are really on point.

Rather than ask if she wants to meet up, tell her that you're doing something or going to location at X date and time, and ask if she wants to join. If she's not able to but interested, she'll offer a different time when she is available.

@AndrewTatesPancreas Do you think I should tell her I want to take her to a surprise place and then take her to the museum? I did that to a girl once and she loved it but on the other hand it could come across as creepy